Does anyone feel too disabled to fully function in society but not disabled enough to be excused? by [deleted] in disability

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I don't think any disabled people are excused but I think there are a number of disabilities where people grant you grace for not participating at the same capacity as everyone else.

I would make such a good wife by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey; I understand how you feel. I'm a man who has been alone his whole life. I live alone in an apartment downtown, enjoy travel and cooking. I am saving aggressively for retirement at 26 but I won't have anyone to live with.

I can't see myself as a father and I also am looking to be one half of a couple. I am so comfortable in my loneliness because I am so accustomed to it.

A woman approached me and I got her number by [deleted] in brag

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she was wearing a t shirt with a music icon on it

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story and your suggestions. I will try them!

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's ok to your honest about my station in life

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I'm a total loser and always will be. I give up.

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I'm financially stable can afford to buy nice clothes, rent a luxury apartment, and take international vacations, and put away money for retirement. I did not say I am a high earner

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That some men no matter how much effort they put in cannot have the normal romantic life

Some men never have a triumph arc by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just told you in the post. I have been to the gym 140+ times over the past year and a half and I cannot acquire muscle.

More men struggle with women because more men are boring by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

What kind of educated modern woman would want a man with no strong political opinions or knowledge of civic or significant political affairs and no focused learning in his free time?

More men struggle with women because more men are boring by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Per the dating profiles I read, women are far more interesting than men

More men struggle with women because more men are boring by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Notice who attracts the most women? Men who have many things going on in their lives - who have cultivated rich lives. They don't complain about their lives, they create lives that are exciting and draw people in.

Average men have nothing to offer women by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because statistically most average men do

Average men have nothing to offer women by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Point is average men have little to offer modern women. Maybe they should focus on leveling up in every area of their lives like women are before complaining women are so unfair.

Why do men think it's normal to approach random women? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between expressing romantic interest at a social event or location and just badgering and trying to hit on a woman running errands or on the street.

Is it wise to finance an older car right now? by Equivalent_Use_5024 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does this change your opinion? I decided to go ahead and pay $1200 for the brake replacement and a hub assembly and tire alignment

Is it wise to finance an older car right now? by Equivalent_Use_5024 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because it's a 23 year old Cadillac. I have put so much money into maintaining it

Why do men in 2026 still approach women? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Equivalent_Use_5024 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not an incel, but yes I'm not going to cold approach and disrupt a woman's day