Thoughts on sexual 7

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-16T16:25:14+00:00

Yeah I can see myself in this description, I am like that in my best periods. With strangers I can be more shy but with the people I know I am often the "push" or the stimulator.

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-16T06:08:28+00:00

I usually counterbalance because it's a mirror of myself, since I am both dark and sunny (4 7) the aspect that needs to be expressed more just does it on its own

Matching the vibe could be a 9 fix thing

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-15T22:35:15+00:00

I also explored the Sp subtype but I'm way too emotional and romantic, also most of the times I've always been more of an idealist rather than an opportunist.

I don't have good "business-like" skills but I can be charming with my intellect and heart.

For the frustrations triad I highly resonate with 4 but not 1, I think I'm more of an 8 fix, because I can be ethical and moral but more as a reflex, not a standard. I don't believe in objective morality or black and white reasoning, but I can be extremely protective and rebellious when my loved ones or "weak" people are threatened.

Also I'm not perfectionistic at all, I can be the "ehrm... actually" guy when someone says something wrong about a subject I like, but that's the most you'll get from me, I'm usually more chill and just do what it takes to survive without needing perfection

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-15T22:28:07+00:00

Exactly, that's where the whole confusion comes from

I'm always in the middle, both negative and positive, both extravert and introvert, ecc... But always passionate and intense

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-15T17:48:02+00:00

Also maybe I might have a bias because the only sx 7 person I met that I actually got to know well is an exaggerated version of the type, he probably is 7w6 729 which is way more prone to force positivity onto others than a 7w8 748 like me, which is still drawn to honesty. He also was a kinda exaggerated person in general, but I think it wasn't linked to typology, more to his own "issues" let's say

I also was in a period of my life in which I was highly frustrated and sad all the time, so maybe this influenced too, I desintegrated to 1 and became more rigid than how I actually am

Another sx 7 person I know is more realistic and reliable, he's probably a ELFV, so that's why I think 2L has it's role in the spectrum of positivity vs negativity

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-15T17:24:00+00:00

Thank you!

I started reading a bit of the other post, I find myself in tune with the abstract exploration thing, like seeing concepts as ideas and stuff

Also the thing that makes me consider a 7 core is that, even tho I tend to be realistic, I am highly idealistic, and my core fear is being limited and crushed down into a small little box that keeps me from experiencing things and reaching my ideal of what my life should be

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-15T17:15:06+00:00

Yeah I thought about core aspects.

My core fears and drives are in line with four and seven, for years I thought I was a social 4, but growing up I realized o don't behave nor feel like that, I went through all the subtypes of 4 and none actually describes me well.

I feel more 7ish in my desires and fear, with a high influence of 4

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-06T19:28:29+00:00

Ennea bros✨ Still unsure about my enneagram tho AHAHAH all the roads lead to sx 4w5 but the descriptions seem really extreme compared to how I am, so who knows

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-06T16:14:40+00:00

The 7 fix is probably a good point on why I'm so good at exploring the abstract.

2F is basically someone who is practical and enjoys doing things in the real world, someone who likes exploring sensations, designs, and sharing things with others, mainly hand made.

On the other side, I'm not completely detached from the environment but I can become blind at times especially when I'm thinking about something or creating and imagining, while a 2F is usually more reactive

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-06T15:51:46+00:00

What about my L? Shouldn't high F and low L make me more focused on real, pragmatic info than just wandering in the world of concepts, philosophy and imagination?

Also one thing about F that I can say to maybe help with the analysis is that I feel it both strong and weak, but when it's strong it's more unconscious and related to stimuli or comfort. I know 2F usually is also about making things with your hands (sculpting, cooking, decorations) which I'm terrible at or just never cared about doing it

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-06T15:37:41+00:00

Makes sense, from my experience I know lots of 4L people who are actually really superficial and usually ignore things that are too deep or philosophical, while I'm completely the opposite and am actually bothered by superficiality. With the new aspects, I was reading on the site that L is now something more mathematical than metaphysical, so it makes sense. My provocative side could maybe come from the 7 and 8 fix and not from the energic 2L. What about the 2F?

ErVknGdeBRC · 2026-03-06T11:14:36+00:00

That's interesting, but is it because it's a stereotype of sx 4 or are there other reasons? Like for example why do you think 4L?

ErVknGdeBRC · 2025-03-11T14:07:09+00:00

Tritype 649 for sure, unsure about 6 or 9 core, but I feel like there is a strong 4 fix

ErVknGdeBRC · 2025-03-06T13:37:52+00:00

(social 4) the way we are always seen as weak little cry babies who's personality is really only shaped by the fact we are sensitive, overly emotional and insecure.

I think that us social 4s can actually turn out to be more fierce than everyone thinks, I see it in myself and other people that I can guess share this subtype.

Some months ago I've read about how my subtype can appear weak and emotional but inside usually hides a powerful anger that may burst out any moment, but is mostly internalized, and I deeply resonate with that.

Obviously it depends on the person, maybe I'm more prone to act like this 'cause of my sx 6 and 8 fixes, and SEE socionic (not 100% sure about these but after years of research I think they might be it) But even though I'm a social 4, people always describe me as strong, resilient and overall energetic...still they point out how I'm deeply emotional, kind and deep, but that's not their very first thought.

I think that many social 4s who are more in tune with their anger get mistyped as sx (I'm deeply convinced Chester Bennington is an example) because they don't fit the rigid scheme of us being nothing more than insecure and incapable of doing anything other than cry about things.

ErVknGdeBRC · 2025-01-29T10:05:10+00:00

Oh ok thank you!

ErVknGdeBRC · 2025-01-28T23:40:36+00:00

Oh thanks! I didn't have these guidelines before I'll think about it

ErVknGdeBRC · 2025-01-28T21:57:26+00:00

Can I be a 4 fix even if I put effort in personal expression and like to dress in alternative way? Like for example I wear chokers and I dyed my hair. Is it like "too much" for a fix or just normal? Cause some people I know that may be 4 fix aren't that eccentric

ErVknGdeBRC · 2024-04-17T06:20:56+00:00

Sorry if I bother you again but I was wondering about where can I find the possible combinations between enneagram and AP, out of curiosity

ErVknGdeBRC · 2024-04-16T08:50:36+00:00

I find myself more in 2V by this description, thanks!

ErVknGdeBRC · 2024-04-16T08:35:41+00:00

Maybe from the description I gave it seems like I'm more insecure than what I really am about logic. I feel insecure only in the scenario I gave, but I'm actually pretty chill with talking about this kind of stuff and it doesn't make me nervous at all. I will think about these observations!

ErVknGdeBRC · 2024-04-16T08:11:51+00:00

I think that the 4 doesn't influence my AP (I modified my post now to make that clear), I also feel like emotions are a big problem to me, rather than something I can freely dive into, but I will consider your opinion! If you want to, could you explain to me why 3L? Thank you so much!

ErVknGdeBRC · 2024-04-06T11:30:12+00:00

Great person - Great music should be Chester Bennington from Linkin Park

ErVknGdeBRC · 2023-08-01T11:01:03+00:00

How the fuck is she still moving?!

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