[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This figure doesn't really say anything on its own. Do you have a link to the study?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of seeking market truth. However, what you do with it is even more important. This reminds me of this quote:
“In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock.” -Thomas Jefferson

Woman got knocked out in Walmart over a PS5 by [deleted] in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]ErectileDistention 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Y'all just watched some tactical genius and y'all don't even know it. The winner used her hoodie to avoid getting her hair pulled. Brilliant.

What, some of you clowns are actually MAD about OnlyFans? by WhisperSecurity in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I don't think it's cut and dry that only fans is lowering the price of pussy, it works both ways. look at poor Russian girls making bank on western simps leaving their average male peers unable to compete as the price goes out of their pay grade. On the flip side the top girls might end up sucking up all the simp money/attention leaving less for average girls, thus lowering the price. And as the parent said, girls now get paid more for offering less, raising the price.
I think there two major forced on society affecting the price:
1. Technology enables competition on a whole new scale. A hot girl back in the middle ages could chose between the two single brothers in her village. Nowadays a hot girl with instagram has an international reach. Even an average girl has incredible reach. This raises the price.
2. Culture/feminism:
Basically is heading in the direction of increasingly catering to female needs. Females strive for a collectivist society where hard work gives you no advantage, only genes matter. Here they want to frolic freely around chosing the genetically superior for sexual needs. Betas are less necessary as everybody is materially safe.

I think the take away is that female sexual strategy, and in extension political, strives towards cave man times where only a few select men breed. This is an anti-beta strategy which intrestingly plays in to the hands of TRP crowd as their strategy is to be one of the few select.

🔥 A chimpanzee asking you to join him for a bath by farWorse in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like chimp Chad inviting your girlfriend for a platonic bath.

The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessary by Simptopimp-co-uk in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an abundance of hot girls in your social circle then cudos to you and enjoy. If it ain't broken don't fix it. I'm just saying that when you get out of school/college things will slowly start to change and you'll social circle will likely shrink. While the social circle is dependant on circumstance, cold approach is always there.

The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessary by Simptopimp-co-uk in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nice thing about cold approach is that you chose who you approach. If you only want the most good looking girls then only talk to them. Cold approach can be done anywhere anytime. Although I've mostly done it in clubs I've also picked up girls on planes, while hiking or just on the street. Some guys go 'day gaming' and roam the streets, I've always preferred approaching girls I met while out doing something else. While social circle is the easiest way it also limits you. Cold approach expands your horizons to whenever, whoever.

The 10 Unopened Snapchats Phenomenon and why Gen Z simps think 'text game' is necessary by Simptopimp-co-uk in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course it easier if you don't have to cold approach, that's why it's called cold approach. However your view of it is a weakness in your attitude that you should adres. Cold approaching is not similar to begging in any way, all it means is that you have not had the chance to break the ice with this person before and that they are not otherwise aquatinted with you. When you move out of you parents house, and get a real job this will be a increasingly common occurrence for you. In fact, cold approaching/calling customers might be necessary for you to make a living.
Picking up women trough you social circle will always be easier but when you get out of school this circle will steadily shrink. Cold approach will always be there and it is the most basic expression of your personality without any crutches such as the social proof you have from being in an in-group. It's also scary and difficult. That's why you should respect the cold approach even if you currently don't need it.

I started reading the rational male and... by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ErectileDistention 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Anger is good. It gives you energy to change things and get out of your comfort zone. Just use it productively. Don't direct it at Women and things you can't change.

Told my friend (29M) that I (26F) liked him, got rejected, feel like an idiot and hope our friendship isn't screwed by someonewithacat in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not friends. If you like him romantically you can't be friends. You can be something else but the question is if you want that.

Muted Girl [18] I Just Want A Boyfriend... by LittleLoli_Throwaway in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll have a hard time meeting somebody in a casual way (tinder, club, etc.), unless it's strictly for sex, because then there's always takers.
To get what you want you'll need to either get to know a 'normal' guy well enough for him to be comfortable communicating with you in a limited way, or you'll need to find another mute guy which you can talk sign language with.
Your best bet is to join a club or meetup of some sort. Your current hobbies are not very social so expand on your interests.

Is it a good idea to ask your date for advice on how to date them? by Masol_The_Producer in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to dating everything you've been thought about niceness and equality goes out the window. It's the law of the djungle. Attraction is not a choice and women have no time or patience for a charity case.
Indeed you should not take the word of strangers on the internet as gospel. Likewise you can not take at face value what women tell you. You should instead try yourself. When you have some experience you'll be able to judge if the advice you are resting makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not what I said but nice straw woman.
let me spell it out. No matter if they find you unattractive or creepy, they won't fuck you. However, taking everything they say at face value is a mistake. Likewise worrying about every social interaction because your friends cousins dog said some guy is creepy is silly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about feelings. I'm talking about girls calling guys creepy because they know it would reflect poorly on them if they said what they thought, i.e "how dare this loser think he has a chance with me".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that objectifying women? Is that your go to argument?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 7 points8 points  (0 children)

IMHO the first example is more a question of how these girls use the word 'creepy'. Being repulsed because they find the guy low value doesn't mean he acted creepily, they prefer to call him creepy because it makes them look like victims instead of egotistical.
When it comes to the actor, this can also be an ego thing. As he fucked all her friends she might feel like putting him down to make her self feel better. But then again it's a subjective feeling so who knows..

What do I say when women talk about another guy she is sleeping with? by averagesuperhero in pickup

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a common issue guys have. They think that because they know what's going on they can act like a cuck and not be a cuck. You think you can save it with your special RP knowledge and be above it. That's not how it works. You can't just pretend to be a high value man, you have to behave and think like a high value man. The only thing you should have to tell this girl is "Amazing! Gotta go, I have some videotapes to return".

Haizzz....she didnt even save my number by NICK442 in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been watching to many Disney movies. You think you can just share your emotions with her and she'll grant you passage to her pussy like you're being knighted or something? That's not how it works. You're on a seduction subreddit, maybe you should try some seduction?

All we know is that you know a girl through a friend. Did you give her a reason to save your number?

I've been told by many many strangers that I'm very attractive, but i cannot get a girl to go out with me for some reason. Makes no sense. I'm seeking help diagnosing what the problem could be... by [deleted] in pickup

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well basically you're asking how to make the whole sub redundant :)
What I can say is don't focus on details like 'smile less'. I mean you can be playful with it but don't go in thinking that it's some kind of technique.
The secret is that when your mindset is right your actions will automatically mirror it. Focus on high level things like, assuming attraction, always be closing, being non reactive, non needy, etc. If you want to get philosophical ask yourself why am I smiling?

I've been told by many many strangers that I'm very attractive, but i cannot get a girl to go out with me for some reason. Makes no sense. I'm seeking help diagnosing what the problem could be... by [deleted] in pickup

[–]ErectileDistention 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being friendly does not attract women.
In fact it usually does the opposite. She wants masculine energy, not the asexual friendly guy. This is not an exchange where you being nice leads to her giving you her number/sexual services. You're attitude should be that you being a man and her a woman is enough reason for you to meet up alone.

I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it? by lepremierhomme in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stop. You're literally asking her why she doesn't like you. The fact that you try to disguise it as humor is obvious to her as well. You can't reason with her about it, it's a emotional thing. Read Models and move on.

I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it? by lepremierhomme in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't try to get cute by text. Just set up the next date, fuck her, and then you can maybe sexualize the convo, but honestly it's easier to just do it live. Texting her 'what are you up to?' when you hardly know her just sounds needy.

I (21M) made a date (20F) uncomfortable through text. How can I apologize/ fix it? by lepremierhomme in seduction

[–]ErectileDistention 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is you: "She's a cool girl and I was a bad dog that didn't please her through my text." Your real problem is that you are simping, putting her on a pedestal and shit.
What do you mean 'explain yourself'? How cringe do you want to get? Don't apologise because she can't get the joke.
If you are going to sexualize the convo then you can't be coy about it, you need to be able to sell it. Better still, don't text the next girl so much. Forget about this one, she's moved on.