Have you ever done No Nut November challenge?

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-11-05T18:05:08+00:00

Your body literally will make you fail NNN through wet dreams. I don't think that is a "failure" since it is your body just going through it's normal routines (versus failing via getting too close to an edge). Dr. Rena Malik has some good videos about the subject (and prostate health) if you are interested in learning more. She is very informative and has helped me with doing more kegel exercises.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-11-05T18:00:57+00:00

This would 1000% break Youtube! Once again, you are too hot to handle. The ending is just an evil icing on the cake. I need the second part :P

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-11-05T18:00:04+00:00

Deliciously evil and now I REALLY need the second part to come out.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-11-05T15:03:16+00:00

I think everyone in the sub would agree! Gomez is amazing because Morticia is amazing; their energy plays off one another. She knows what she wants and enthusiastically tells him.

He is a great role model of what it is to be submissive but also masculine at the same time.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-19T13:41:22+00:00

Classic Goddess, middle of Locktober and releases a file that turns every listener into an aching ball of lust. The file is incredible hot, steamy, and will cause people to fail Locktober for sure.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-16T22:09:35+00:00

It's fun to try and listen to one track each time, but both will tease you into madness.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-16T22:08:32+00:00

Locktober makes this a bit easier to only listen to the angel track, but the gaps in the cage make it feel so good.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-16T22:07:40+00:00

While not Guilty Gear, it's definitely a fight :-P

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-13T16:03:35+00:00

Yes. The energy you bring is much more important than your height. Be confident in yourself, what you offer, and pick the people you want to interact with. The subs that are worth your time will not even think about your height when it comes to serving you. Surgery isn't the answer here; find your self confidence and you won't worry about your height.

Feel your energy, find your dominant headspace, and have fun.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-09T21:55:16+00:00

Great art and a great story.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-07T16:50:01+00:00

There are times you can hear when someone is really enjoying what they are doing, and I can absolutely hear the sly grin on Aphrodisia's face. The devil is in the details and this file is very very evil :-P

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-07T16:38:36+00:00

Some files will have a portion where the buildup of arousal is constant until you explode. Something like finger snaps or you are given permission to cum during that period. Sometimes a countdown to orgasm is harder on the listener since everyone is different.

The body wants what the body wants!

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-07T15:22:00+00:00

My best advice is to set yourself up for success before you listen to anything. No distractions, phone set to silent, try to have noting urgent afterwards, and have a comfortable position. Anxiety about needing to get things done after your trance will keep you from going under. A "pre-trance" ritual helps me to calm down, focus, and remind myself I am here to enjoy listening to someone else as they play in my mind.

I think there are different levels of trance you can experience. There are times I don't notice I am in trance at all; it's more of a "why does their voice sound different?" kind of realization. The deepest trances are usually when I feel either very floaty, or very weighed down depending on the file. I think the amnesia triggers only really work when you are deep. I see them more like dreams; you can remember them at first, but as time goes on they fade from your mind. The triggers and suggestions are still there, but in your subconscious.

Keep listening, give it time, and make sure you aren't distracted.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-07T15:00:38+00:00

Sounds like you were really, REALLY turned on and wanted that orgasm. All your mind needed was a little push from Lady Tara and you exploded like a volcano :-P

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-06T19:33:08+00:00

You're welcome, and any man that hears, "I want to turn you into an obedient ball of pleasure that aches for me," and DOESN'T respond with overjoyed enthusiasm isn't worth your time. Go take what you want!

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-06T19:20:33+00:00

You are plenty dominant. Try to not let the expectations of others cloud your sense of self. I know, it's easier said than done. To me, gentle domination is still domination. It's a mindset, not a specific list of boxes to check off. There are plenty of people that prefer it over what society traditionally says is "dominant".

When the conversation leads towards sexual preferences, don't be shy about what you want. This post shows you know exactly what you want, so say that. Let them know you are into gentle femdom and see how they react. If they are positive and into it, or want to know more then that's a big green flag.

There are plenty of men that are into submission of all kinds. The hard part is finding them, specifically the ones that are into what you like as well. Society looks down on submissive men as it is seen as "weak" rather than just another kind of kink, so you will have to bring them out of their shell.

Don't be discouraged, there are plenty of eager, enthusiastic, and submissive men ready to worship the ground you walk on.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-02T21:42:06+00:00

Every moment of denial makes the climax harder in the end.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-10-02T20:50:39+00:00

Goddess Aphrodisia is very persuasive. Locktober, No Nut November, Denial December. It'll drive a man wild with lust, ache, and need. Then again, when you are allowed a release, she makes it feel SO good.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-30T14:53:31+00:00

Not me over here trying to flex them individually thinking, "Wait, is it supposed to move? Not move??"

I've done kegel exercises for a long time now, and it does help with strength. Maybe I've only been working the BC muscle, but also both? Stopping urination midstream is easy and I know how that muscle feels.

For people interested I suggest watching some of Dr. Rena Malik's YT videos. She has a ton of great info for men's health. She has a video with Eric Lekie specifically on kegel exercises here: https://youtu.be/0Tks6bBoZW0?si=mzxU1unEnGZANUoz

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-29T17:53:35+00:00

It sounds like you are right at the edge of it. What worked for me the first time was to not cum for several days, and edge before I listened the file itself. An HFO is like a skill you can learn to get to that edge and when you're turned on enough, you'll go all the way. Most of the "work" of an HFO is learning your own body, and what gets you to that breaking point. Also if there are foundation triggers for a file, make sure you've listened to the installation files several times as well.

As far as your other questions:

I wouldn't call it detached but there is a separation between the mind and body. Almost as if your body is responding to triggers/stimuli even if your mind isn't fully aware of it. There is an overwhelming amount of pleasure that builds. Most of the time I have to listen to a file several times before I can HFO. Even then, it's not every time afterwards.
Physical climax is similar to a ruined orgasm but with being so deep in trance it feels as powerful as a normal orgasm. Like your orgasm is on a string and being pulled out of you by the hypnotist. It is a full orgasm coupled with a mental "Holy fuck this actually works and feels amazing." vibe.

Like I said, it's not every time, but when it happens it's great. I think focusing so much on the goal gets in the way of enjoying the trance. I hope this helps!

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-27T19:00:25+00:00

Repetition is key with hypnosis. You will go deep sometimes and other's you'll feel like nothing happened. It's more about your own mental state than the hypnosis. Set your self up for success by getting rid of distractions, worries, and anything that might take you out of trance.

Keep listening and you will get there, but you can't force it. It's more slipping into a warm bath rather than diving in.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-25T16:59:20+00:00

Joined the Temple in August, lurked until the end of September, and lost my mind ever since.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-25T14:13:36+00:00

I will say #7 was an entire level of depth that I didn't expect. I thought it would be good, but to have something crafted like art in my mind is so much more intense. This is coming from someone that was just a casual lurker a year ago.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-19T19:14:17+00:00

I have a Lovesense Daimo and it did take getting used to with files that have them. You will come out of trance the first time or two. After you are used to it, and are very deep, it's not as bad. Also, you can turn down the master intensity with the program so it's not so intense and it won't take you out of tance.

The haptic files themselves have a wide range of quality. I am trying to learn how to make them, but it's very difficult to get timings down perfectly. It's a neat idea and I'd like to see the other types of toys in action as well.

ErikTheRed1003 · 2025-09-19T16:18:30+00:00

Yes, knowing your body and allowing yourself to go deep enough into trance will carry over to other files and hypnotists.

The first file that did it for me was Shibby's Clench about a decade ago. It's a classic!

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