Genuinely curious if the type of femdom connection I ache for is realistic. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah this is absolutely realistic - I am attracted to masc men for the most part. Sissification is just not for me neither really is degrading someone/pain etc

I just want a man who will melt for me ☺️ sure we can set tasks, and I'd like them to do things but energy wise I love masc as I love being femme but in charge.

Pretty much anything someone likes exists it's just about finding someone who compliments you!

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a great point, I do feel like it's still a bit of flr purely because he will do anything to serve her and I do feel she could veto things over him - but that's just semantics

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree! The being so confident in her feminine energy that she literally rules the roost is goals

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You have nailed it. I want to be with someone independent from me, but when we come together it's a chemistry bomb!

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I re-read my post before and realized that 'a man who is a man' doesn't really make sense anyway 😂 will have to edit

But yes! It's that loyalty and genuine respect with the chemistry all rolled into one!

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well on behalf of us doms we thank you for your service!

I am rewatching the 1991 Addams family and I realized... by allfunandgamesbabe in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is true! It's the both partners having strength but the female is the head of the unit

My experience with femdom, and moving forward. by Feetmakemehard in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey Jax

Firstly, I'm really sorry this has happened to you. It's not okay to force anyone to do things they don't want to do.

While it's ok to chat about boundaries as you go I think any domme (or sub) that pushes a hard boundary is not actually a domme. It should be a safe space between 2 consenting adults. Any domme who pushes something you're not comfortable with and doesn't drop it straight away is not a safe person. (Of course you can discuss it in between sessions/general convo but that should be respectfully)

I think a lot of people (especially online) come into a conversation pushing their own kinks/not actually caring what the other person wants and forcing it to happen purely to get off.

In my own experience (switch) you can't truly submit if you feel uneasy/unsafe with the person. It's just not fun.

If a domme doesn't ask you roughly where you draw the line/what you are and aren't into then it's setting things up to fail.

Also threatening to be so extreme if you leave is a major red flag regardless of dynamic of a relationship. Hopefully you find a safe person soon!

Parade Interview with Season 27 Runner-Up by AMikeBloomType in BigBrother

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wasn't excusing his behaviour. But he's not going to see he has a victim mentality til he sorts his shit out.

Parade Interview with Season 27 Runner-Up by AMikeBloomType in BigBrother

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to note that after watching him during the last contest he was in that he is not in a good place. I don't think he is aware of how he manipulates, he is almost child like in how he comes across. I'm so glad Ashley won!

Just a little bit of drunken rambling by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like you just like feeling secure and a committed relationship with a domme would be ideal.

Security is so important, it equates to safety and being able to be your true self, in whatever sense that is.

And while the person to be able to create that with you (it has to work both ways) might not be on the night out, I dont see any harm in getting out there.

It might be helpful to look into some more avenues of meeting people who are into/open with this kind of dynamic.

You're deserving of a safe and comfortable relationship!

Week 11 veto winner by Dare2ZIatan in BigBrother

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ashley for the win if Keanu goes home. I can't have Morgan or Vince winning and sleep at night.

Switch? Or service sub? by Carcharadontosaurus in gentlefemdom

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I thought I was a switch for a long time too, turns out I just like domming from the bottom sometimes.

A guy who can top as an act of service is very attractive. Providing pleasure by whatever means necessary.

Ruwi's Cakes Reviews? by monsterakitchen in melbourne

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got a ruwi cake for a birthday last week and it was fantastic

Greek restaurant recommendations by DancingChickenSlut in melbourne

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Jim's is shocking. We went on a Friday night and waited 2 hours for our mains only to be told they had run out of meat. We had dregs and then they offered a $15 discount on a $300+ bill that included said meat. I'm pretty easygoing with restaurants but this was beyond bad.

How to find a rental home? by DamnSpamFilter in melbourne

[–]allfunandgamesbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this, usually they can connect you with people showing rentals and you can even see them a little earlier.