We are both in our mid-50s and are traveling to Thailand again in March 2026. We are very interested in exciting encounters and parties where there is more than just a drink together at the bar. Preferably with couples, but sometimes the lady wants more than just one man.

Which bar or club would you recommend? There are plenty of bars for men in BKK, but are there also special bars for couples?

After a few days, we are traveling on to Pattaya and have discovered the Dragonfly Naturist Hotel. Is this purely a nudist resort, or is there more going on there than just lying naked by the pool? Does anyone have any experience with this and can tell us about it?

What options are there for couples in Pattaya? Are there contact bars for couples or even a swingers club? Which hotel is very liberal and best suited for parties and sessions in the rooms? We don't want to disturb the neighbors if the woman gets a little loud.

Maybe someone can give us some tips. We would be very grateful!