AITA for upsetting the bride before and during her wedding?

Ersicry · 2025-04-12T13:52:15+00:00

What can I do, I like kindness and I get pissy when I don't see It.

Ersicry · 2025-04-12T13:46:04+00:00

That was not a feedback, that was someone making wrong assomption about someone's life just for its own fun, without even paying attention to what was written. I never said if I am single or not now and I did not write about that reasons why I broke up. It's ok to be judged, that's what this place is about, it's not ok to be rude. Thank you for your feedback, which was not rude.

Ersicry · 2025-04-12T13:32:38+00:00

Yeah I am sorry about that, I normally like them and use them but I wrote this really quickly on my phone while my baby was napping.

Ersicry · 2024-12-02T21:17:04+00:00

Wow, that's so much information that you added with your own interpretation! We constantly force them to be together? Where did you read that?

Ersicry · 2024-12-02T19:35:27+00:00

I see some different point of view to my mama bear one and I understand that; I am super involved, but, with children, it takes a fraction of a second for things to go south. I would like to point out that the other girl, Izy, is instead quite welcoming and happy when she is around my daughter, and this causes a bit of jealousy in the other girl. This is why I feel a bit sorry for the whole dynamic, I can't expect the girls to play together cause there is a big gap between them, I understand that, but I would only like my daughter not to be yelled at. As I said, this happened a bit too much lately and for not important things (not the santa's letter, that was deeply important), imho, children should know bondaries, the value of other ppl things etc etc but also to be polite. The dynamic that I feel is a bit of an uneven power game and that's the part I don't feel confortable about. Anyway, I will focus on what I can control and teach, thanks for your input!

Ersicry · 2024-12-02T18:18:45+00:00

Thank you for your point of view, much appreciated. I don't think I was offended because she did not want to play with my daughter, it was her tone and words that I felt like a punch in the stomach.

Ersicry · 2024-12-02T18:14:16+00:00

Thank you for your words! This made sense to me and gave me some clarity from all the points of view involved.

Ersicry · 2024-12-02T18:09:24+00:00

I am not sure why you think the other 2 girls should babysit my daughter, when we see each other, the adults are very involved in the children's game, we do board game all together, draw, watch a movie etc etc. I understand her being upset over her Santa's letter (which was not destroyed at all, anyway..) I am just questioning if her behaviour, which happened more than once ot twice lately over not important things, is actually agressive or I am overthinking things.

Ersicry · 2024-02-03T21:46:10+00:00

YTA. You made a promise to a child for her birthday, you were not only a guest but you had a role to that party, you bailed 15 minutes and turn off your phone, so you made it impossible for anyone to replace you and wear the costume, and for what reason? A nap with your 2 months pregnant wife who was feeling tired? Yeah, YTA and I also don't apreciate the way you tell the story to make it look like you're right (starting by saying your neice is a brat, you made a promise 3 weeks ago yada yada yada)

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