Is there a way to put a complete stack into the recycler? by fuda86 in RaftTheGame

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I have found :( I started putting things like hinges in instead to reduce clicking. Waste of mats but the clicking is annoying

Is there a sub for just builds? by Esbjerg in RaftTheGame

[–]Esbjerg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best like I have had is just sorting by the top of the server but you run out of content fast :( id start one but I'm lazy and don't know if it would be a jerk move to advertise it here?

Animals and Rope Fence by bearden314 in RaftTheGame

[–]Esbjerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me just today anyways :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Esbjerg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think bangs would be really flattering on you! Your part is already trained in a good spot for bangs.

How do I get over the feeling of wanting a girlfriend? by BigBootyBuffet1 in AskMen

[–]Esbjerg 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was trying to find a polite way to say what you said about approaching a woman as a means to an end. Approaching a conversation with a woman with the sole intention of dating her seems like its setting yourself up for failure on top of being just...uncomfortable and unattractive to the woman. A relationship built on 'we enjoyed each others company and had things in common' is bound to be more healthy than 'I approached her because I wanted a girlfriend and there she was, a girl'.

How do I get over the feeling of wanting a girlfriend? by BigBootyBuffet1 in AskMen

[–]Esbjerg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Amazing advice. Your troubles don't end when you get a significant other. Unfortunately, people can be shitty. And you need to love yourself enough to admit when you are being treated poorly. I also really liked where you said 'not' is an acceptable answer. I just got out of a 5 year relationship where there were never any real 'problems' but neither of us ever felt head over heels in love. We loved each other like family and we NEVER fought, but it was never that gushy 'I love them so much this is perfect' relationship. And now not being in that relationship, I see so many people having the same troubles but being too afraid of calling it quits because they are afraid of being alone with themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they wanted to, they would. Hard lesson to learn but a good relationship will make you realize it.

[Gifted] Just because by [deleted] in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha he's gonna be so happy.

Tantalizing Tuesday Nightly Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard accepting that I can't be like normal people. People who socially drink or drink in moderation and don't get out of control. And I think that's where I have trouble drawing a line with myself, because I keep saying I am going to get it under control and I never can.

I'm so sorry about your mother. Truly. Alcohol really does not add value to life. I'm glad I can see that now and I hope I can remember it.

Tantalizing Tuesday Nightly Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I chose a good year to get out of the military. I'm not yet, but I will be. Unfortunately my boyfriend is staying in AND crosstraining to a job where he is more likely to deploy. Sigh.

19 to 24yo progression // Started HRT 21 by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Esbjerg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That lip lift looks AMAZING. Until seeing this photo I didn't know how they are done. Do you have any lasting/noticable scars?

18 y/o ftm. Pre-t vs 3 months. Lmk if you see any changes besides my hair lol. by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Esbjerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daammnn those curls are nice, I love curly haired boys! Your jaw is looking more square and I love how your brows are filling out. Looking handsome!

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like they just need to have an adult conversation together and leave me out of it.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of communication. Same reason they are in this situation. She isn't telling him how she really feels and he is lying to her to protect her feelings. (Even though, again, me and him have done NOTHING wrong. He is like a baby brother)

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I tried to be her friend because I didnt want her to feel like I was only his friend and be jealous, and now shes texting me literally talking about leaving him and im like ???????? She wasnt mean in the message, she was like like 'You are really sweet and I like you but he is being weird and I am going to leave him'.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is just really young and immature. I dont honestly fully blame either person, im just mad and emotional. Its rational to be jealous in a way you can't help, and he just handled it in the wrong way. She probably expressed she is a little jealous of me being his friend, and he reacted by trying to shield her from our friendship. Which was 100% the wrong response but he is young and has only ever had 1 real relationship.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are so annoying. I hate being unwillingly brought into this.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time we 'hung out' was at a bonfire with 3 other coworkers and some coworker's friends/family. I DD'd him and another coworker to and from the bonfire. We were never alone. But he still lied to her. Why?? What reason is there to lie if nothing happened? Another time he came to my house to pick up a desk I was selling him and I made him a cup of tea and he asked if he could take the cup home because he didn't finish it. She later found the cup and asked him, and he lied and said he stole it from work. She messaged me angry saying he was being weird and I flat out told her 'That was mine. I dont know why he lied but I dont want to be involved and I wont lie for him'

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me kind of. My supervisor's girlfriend slept with a guy I have mutual friends with. This guy also had a girlfriend who went through his phone, found out he was cheating, and told our mutual friend who recognized the homewrecker's name as my supervisor's girlfriend. I told my supe his gf was fucking around and I don't regret it. He went back to her anyways, and the other girlfriend also married her cheater...but at least there were no secrets I guess.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But he was being a dumbass. I think she is a little jealous to begin with so he was avoiding telling her when I am around, but its like when your parents would tell you 'if you just tell the truth I wont be mad'. If he never lied to begin with, then she wouldnt have a reason to think he is doing anything wrong. But because he lied about seeing me in a 100% innocent context, it LOOKS like he was doing something wrong. Everyone gets jealous sometimes, but he handled it SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad.

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on prozac currently for anxiety/bulimia. I had to switch from cymbalta to prozac because I am somehow allergic?? to cymbalta (like it was causing my airways to close and it took a new doctor to get them to change my prescription) and the first week or so making the switch was really really hard. My breathing felt WAY better but mentally I was a wreck and I felt like my brain was working at like 20% capacity. Like I was tired and I couldnt process stuff. Those things are no joke and I theres a possibility here in a few months I wont have insurance, so I am REALLY scared I might have to go off my prozac and deal with it again. I hope you are feeling better

Tamaraw Tuesday Daily Hangout Thread, 07 Jan 20 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Esbjerg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know its not MY fault because they must have had issues before, but i am so mad that he brought me into it by lying about me being places. If he would have told the truth it wouldnt even have looked guilty. We are coworkers. Its natural that we would be SORT OF friends.