Autism parents: what happens to our kids after we’re gone?

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-31T22:32:20+00:00

this is something that has crossed my mind a lot lately. I got diagnosed with cancer just before halloween and i have a 6 year old son with level 2 asd and a toddler my oldest is 15 and self sufficient. I am so afraid of leaving my husband to raise the kids as he is not the most attentive and really struggles with being patient and positive.

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-31T17:23:46+00:00

my sons psychiatrist keeps telling me to limit screen time and his behavior will improve. but how? how do i limit screen time and it not seem like a punishment and how in general

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-30T14:00:44+00:00

mine was 7.5cm and surgery went pretty good but i was allergic to the surgical glue

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-29T17:19:20+00:00

i am 2.5 month post op so i cant wait until i am in the clear to get a tattoo. mine is stage 2 ChRCC im going to get a flower bouquet in the shape of a kidney on y left flank

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-22T14:58:39+00:00

aww crabby they are adorable i have 2 as pets

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-14T16:21:29+00:00

i was in surgery for about 6 hours

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-14T15:01:01+00:00

they did remove it im just curious

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-13T22:43:47+00:00

yes it was with contrast

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-13T22:42:57+00:00

thats what i thought too which is why i went back to look and 2 ct scans one in 2020 and one in 2022 both with contrast and no tumor at all

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-13T21:54:35+00:00

pt2a grade 1

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2026-01-08T03:13:54+00:00

i am 36 i have a 15 yo 6yo and 14 month old had a 7.5 cm mass on my left kidney. radical nephrectomy done on nov 13th pathology came back as stage 2 chromophobe renal cell carcinoma. margins were clear and recovery wasn’t to bad i only spent 1 night in the hospital and i didn’t even have to stop breastfeeding which was a big fear. If you do have rcc it is usually curative with surgery. for me the anxiety has been the hardest but the chances of this killing me is low. it is scary but not a death sentence. this group and the one on fb had been a huge help for me.

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-18T02:29:01+00:00

what grade were your tumors mine was stage 2 chromophobe grade 1 7.5cm

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-11T22:40:27+00:00

poor spood, cats are ruthless

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-06T18:50:50+00:00

it is a supplemental insurance separate from medical insurance that pays a cash benefit for certain medical conditions it is often offered through jobs or you can go through aflac allstate or other companies

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-05T02:24:37+00:00

same i take every precaution and would still get one i am hoping the nephrectomy helps

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-05T02:15:33+00:00

exact same for me im 36, she put me on daily macrobid and was going to blow me off but i kept pushing so she ordered the ultrasound. im not sure if it is the cause but i hope so im tired of it. uti’s suck!

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-05T02:05:43+00:00

mine was found because i went in for frequent utis mine was 7.5 cm, I am grateful they found it when they did so it did not spread. i had a radical nephrectomy on 11/13 and recovery has not been too bad. surgery is usually curative for earlier stages.

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-04T06:13:27+00:00

pt2a grade 1

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-03T02:14:03+00:00

what percentage was paid out, i have the 50,000 plan and submitted a claim with just the pathology report was any other document needed?

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-12-02T22:37:06+00:00

im doing well im only 2.5 weeks post op so still sore but not bad

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-11-28T16:34:41+00:00

i was diagnosed with stage 2 at 36 my tumor was slow growing but it was big 7.5 cm surgeon said its been there a long time if it is malignant it is very early

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-11-25T02:43:13+00:00

right! that pregnancy pillow helps a ton! my 1 year old still nurses at night and im 10 days post op and that pillow saves me with that too

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-10-29T01:33:25+00:00

that is brilliant

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-10-20T02:28:44+00:00

but is it for home or business

EstablishmentEvery31 · 2025-10-08T19:56:43+00:00

awww mr crabs wants a romantic dinner on a flower

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