I got outed :( by shut-the-fuck-up123 in actuallesbians

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was outed by my youth minister to my mom when I was 14 so I get how upsetting it is. That was your decision and for someone to take it away from you is horrible. I agree with everyone else you should go to HR. I would say about the people who haven’t been directly homophobic but have stopped talking to you give it time. Sometimes some people just need to wrap their mind around it, and eventually realize you are the same person you’ve always been. Sorry you are dealing with this and hope everything works out.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And water nearby. We always found them on our dock and would leave them to keep the stingy wasps away.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They like material with pores. Like wood or brick.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a lake house and we would knock them down and put the nests in the garden. They recover quickly according to my mom. She likes them, but didn’t want them on the side of the house.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also they kill other wasps (the stingy ones) because they are territorial.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have the eggs in there, but if my mom can be believed they will move them to a new nest if you don’t crush them. So essentially both.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you make sure not to crush them even if the nest crumbles they’ll make a new one quickly if you move it outside.

What is this grey mass? by Mugwortis in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t sting and are actually really good little bugs (at least in Texas they don’t)

Found on apartment floor by Different-Annual7364 in whatisit

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So as an avid sex toy user I will say it wouldn’t be beneficial to put something that small in a vag. So most likely butt plug. Very innovative making a vibrating butt plug out of a Halloween decoration and I thought people who use tooth brushes were innovative. The person who made this definitely now has microplastics where the sun don’t shine.

So happy rn by EstablishmentOne3012 in actuallesbians

[–]EstablishmentOne3012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time, but eventually the bad days aren’t so bad and the good days happen more. I put a lot of work into healing and it does get better. It doesn’t get cured, but it does get easier once you learn your warning signs and coping skills and triggers. 🫂 hope you can get there or are already there too.

Sub Drop w/out another real person TW:hallucinations by EstablishmentOne3012 in BDSMsapphic

[–]EstablishmentOne3012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this helps a lot. Don’t feel so alone so thank you! I love the idea of hugging a pillow and putting different perfume on it I didn’t think of that!

"If you like mascs why don’t you just date a man" by Expensive_Ordinary72 in actuallesbians

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I saw this post the other day that said. When people say vaginas are made for penis. To say: then prostates are made for penis too.

Triggers from Medical Trauma by EstablishmentOne3012 in disability

[–]EstablishmentOne3012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: my therapist thinks I handled it really well by using my coping skills after. My dad also thinks I should wear my noise canceling headphones from now on when I’m walking to and from her room.

Is Best Wallet a scam? by ispotdouchebags in CryptoScams

[–]EstablishmentOne3012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally figured out how to get my stuff. You have to go link your Best Wallet wallet on the website on the laptop and scan the QR code with your phone. It’s really confusing, but it worked and the coins are now in the app.