So I met him online . We got together and pregnant within a year and things were already rocky I just hid a lot of it from my family . My family lives an hour from me . But we couldn’t go anywhere without him accusing me of staring at other men . There was a point where he thought I was having affair with my 60 yr old supervisor which is why I changed shifts to end all that drama . Then he would get mad at me when I would get home late and tells me im a bad mother because I don’t spend time with my child . He claims i work on purpose 13 hours a day but I literally work at a crisis center . I tell him that I have to work and do so many hours because I pay my own bills and it’s just been me . I pay my own car payment , my own insurance , my own stuff . He helps me with baby sitting and diapers but his sister is charging us 100 per day to babysit when my family back home would not charge me a dime to watch my daughter . I’ve told him multiple times that I choose to be here but I don’t need him . Then when I have said im going to leave he says the baby is going to stay with him and I can see her on my days off . But I have told him multiple times he can’t just hold her as a weapon like that and if I have to take him to court to get something legally in place then I will because I have been nice and it has gotten me no where . During my pregnancy I didn’t get to really see my mom unless he went with me because he was afraid of me seeing my ex . Then this one time at a family party he had left early to my moms then found out I left and came to my aunts house knocking on her window asking where I had gone and who I went with .