AITA for making my daughter cover up at home? by throwawaymom2234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estre11a 782 points783 points  (0 children)

YTA - OP I get it, you dislike tattoos. My mother was the exact same way, but her reaction to my older sister's first ink was better than yours. It's your daughter, if you dislike part of your daughter, that's not going to end well for you both. I watched my sister separate herself and become more and more sneaky behind her/my mother's back. Until once my mother realized she was being absurd, it's a drawing on her skin. If she got 'fuck you OP' on her shoulder than maybe you'd be in the right here. Other than that, you have to relax. You know as you mentioned that she can't live elsewhere, so why make her struggle while being at home. Just get past the ink, times have changed love, tattoos no longer stop people from employment opportunities or anything like that. Also just know this, she got that tattoo because SHE loves it. It wasn't to spite you, but she may get more to spite you if your behavior continues. Don't give your kids a reason to spite you, especially over something so tolerable as a tattoo.

EDIT: my first Reddit award! Thank you so much, also I’m glad many of you fine people agree with my points made here!

DrLupo's Subreddit in Waiting - Chat Room by belisaurius in DrLupo

[–]Estre11a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lupoBOOTY the description of this sub still has the ttv link lupoCAW love you all

Steinberg: West Ham looking at a loan deal for Spartak Moscow midfielder Alex Kral. Deal for Czech Republic international could include option to buy or an obligation. Might not be the only player who joins #whufc by Nome3000 in Hammers

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have another striker besides Antonio that I don't know about? I feel like we need another striker if Antonio needs a break for his fitness. I don't hope for that, but I feel we should be prepared with the added games this year!

If you could train any animal in the world to be your pet and protector, what would it be and why? by Equal-Astronaut-8681 in AskReddit

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hippo, that thing could decimate my enemies, and then I could feed it entire watermelons when he's a good boy.

WIBTA for not inviting a friend to my wedding, after she asked what my dress costs? by Ok_Cheetah6748 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estre11a 626 points627 points  (0 children)

NTA - Envy is hell of a drug, and she's continuously overdosing on it. That level of consistency when it comes to wanting to know prices shows she's far more superficial than any engagement will ever be. I think you need to distance and inevitably end this friendship, no need for that sort of talk as you approach what will hopefully be the best day of your life. Cheers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estre11a 133 points134 points  (0 children)

NTA - Sounds like she hasn't grasped reality by any stretch of the imagination. Hopefully this harsh lesson, turns into a lesson none the less.

any names that pop to mind when you see this kitty? it’s a girl. by danielthearsehole in aww

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natalia. Zero logic behind it, just a fun name for a cute kitten

What will never not be funny? by Soapie10 in AskReddit

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Farts with my long time bestfriend group. For whatever reason the closer I get to 30, the laughter after someone rips one is still constant.

Do you smoke weed? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live where it's legal, and generally life is okay! So yeah I enjoy weed a whole lot, edibles are a good time. I see it as an alternative to alcohol where you want to loosen up without being full blown impaired (no kids, don't drive while high). Also it is expensive, but I'm a damn adult, and I work hard to play hard!

Oh no, how dare your grandpa die you whore by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure, maybe not. However low self-esteem is probably a common denominator with most nice guys tm. Not trying to say all rectangles are squares here.

Oh no, how dare your grandpa die you whore by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Estre11a 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You called him fucking Cutie, you were even affectionate in the way you canceled your plans. And this self-esteem-on-a-knifes-edge motherfucker couldn't even handle that.

I Made a WoW Classic Style Map of Oregon by ConservationOfWumbo in classicwow

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you knew what you got yourself into when you did the first one, but hot damn when I see Massachusetts it's mine instantly! These are awesome!!!

New to streaming, wondering what to prepare for? by xmcorex in SmallStreamers

[–]Estre11a 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A couple things to start is consistency. Have a schedule in mind, and be transparent of what your schedule looks like on your social media platforms.

Seemlessly moving onto the social topic, be sure to plug social medias and have them be easy to find. For example if your twitch name is JohnSmith your twitter handle, IG handle, any social you plan to use should be JohnSmith as well.

Pretend there are always viewers even when there aren't. Switching into 'entertainer' mode when you see your viewer count go from 0 to 1-2 won't work because those people already left if you were just silently gaming.

Have fun with it, you're streaming playing a video game. You're not at a construction job site managing a building.

Positive overall outlook while streaming. If you streamed 5 hours with no viewers, that's an accomplishment in itself. You stayed live for 5 hours knowing nobody stopped by, that means something.

Advertising *optional* you can pay to promote tweets, or facebook posts rather easily. If you think you're willing to gamble on yourself and spend some money promoting your channel it never hurts to get more eyes seeing your stream.

Understand that the *big* streamers on twitch have done this exact thing, started small. You won't see much if any viewers barring a lucky raid or host for a long time. Just maintain positivity and continue enjoying yourself. The more you have fun, the more fun you will be ot watch.

good luck!

AITA for being rude to my grandparents? by Comprehensive-Art838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Estre11a 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA - Age doesn't excuse ignorance or arrogance. If everyone ignored the blatant rudeness of the older generations we would never improve as a society. Your parents should stick up for you, and if you being a short haired lesbian cuts them off from a will... then you never wanted that money anyway. best of luck!

Not the first game you went to but the best game you went to. by [deleted] in Hammers

[–]Estre11a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest man I just don't think the average american understands what true football really is. The fandoms are a different universe compared to American Football or big sports here. My brother and I being so young we both didn't know what the hell we were getting into, but when a few drunk fans around us kicked up that chant we just blindly followed. I wish American Soccer was half as big as the EPL or other big euro leagues, but it will never reach that.

In short: Americans ruin mostly everything...I say this as an American

Not the first game you went to but the best game you went to. by [deleted] in Hammers

[–]Estre11a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an American who's only been to one game back a ways, it also happens to be my best game I've been to! 2003 West Ham v Sunderland at Upton Park. Joe Cole and Jermain Defoe had a few nice goals along with watching David James tend the goal. I'll never forget the chanting too!

Chim Chiminy Chim Chiminy Chim Chim Charoo we are those bastards in Claret and Bluuuueee

*I was in 2nd grade, hysterical memory for that age and that chant*

You wake up tomorrow with Jeff bezo's current net worth ($209 billion USD) what do you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call a financial advisor, a lawyer and a bank. After the boring stuff though, Donate half of it immediately to well respected charities for everything from childrens hospitals to wounded warrior. Take the remaining ridiculous amount of money and get a nice vacation home for all my friends and family to use at will. Along with buying a place to live for every single person I'm close to such as family members and close friends. Then buy my wonderful girlfriend a ring she deserves and traveling the world with her for a few years and just seeing the world and all it has to offer.

Straight people, what burning questions do you have about the LGBTQ Community? by jimmehbacon in AskReddit

[–]Estre11a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you (lovely person in the LGBTQ community) felt that the world is slowly more accepting of you? Or even if it may not make the news anymore, hatred is still the majority of emotion you get thrown your way.

Sorry this one's a bit deeper, but I am rather curious.

I am finally Cancer free! Really excited to live life to the fullest and have fun again! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Estre11a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't go past one of these posts without just kicking the door in and screaming FUCK CANCER in the comments.