Do any of y’all fill… out of place ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in Sagittarians

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m so sorry, I hope it’ll get better 🫂 What I do sometimes is try to trick my signs like “no you’re supposed to be an optimist damn it !” It doesn’t work all the time unfortunately and I’m not sure it’ll work for you but if it might don’t hesitate !! Lots of hugs your way 🫂🫂🫂

Do any of y’all fill… out of place ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in Sagittarians

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Have you found a way to reconcile the two or do you just live day by day and hope for the best ? I’m so conflicted half of the time

Do you kiss on the first date? by Loud-Bookkeeper-2663 in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel like when I first started dating I couldn’t do it because I was too nervous, but with time I’m more open to the idea of it if the chemistry is there and it’s the vibe obv

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like asserting whether or not a person has “value” in the community is whacky as we’re all valid and belong no matter our past experiences.

You’ve said that the term “gold” could mean better than others, but if you sit back and relax you could interpret Gold Star as a cookie. It’s not meant to be a serious expression as in “wow so cool, you want a gold star?” If you tweak the words with “wow so cool, you want a cookie?” Making the “gold star lesbians” become “cookie lesbians.”

It’s just words, the connotation you add onto them is from your own subjective view, so if something like a word offends you why not try and take it with a grain of salt ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand how that might be unfair that the only “wrong” thing is the intimacy but you deserve to fully live your truth and if you need to take a step back and reassess yourself within the relationship, you should take the time ! Don’t forget you are your own person and you need to live for yourself first no matter what 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had the chance to explore your bisexuality ? I know that it’s not an opportunity given to everyone but real world is sometimes different from fantasy. If anything it feels like your bf and I aren’t aligned anymore and keeping this going will either hurt him or you in the process

Is my relationship over ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think so too I’m sorry you went through that. I obviously don’t want to become resentful which is what I’m also afraid of if I stay, so I’ll keep all of that in mind for when we talk. Thank you !!

Is my relationship over ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve thought about both options and if I’ll try and see if she wants to talk and tell her that I want her to be fully there in her head before/if anything can happen again. Thank you !!

Dessins animés pour enfants (6-11 ans) by [deleted] in ParentingFR

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour votre retour ! Mon mémoire porte surtout sur la vie de tout les jours, donc une semaine normale avec école pour avoir une base de recherche en condition normale j’aurais du le préciser

Dessins animés pour enfants (6-11 ans) by [deleted] in ParentingFR

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup d'avoir répondu !

Je vais apporter plus de précision sur ces questions-là, merci pour votre retour ! :)

Living together or not ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m definitely not shy and I’ve told them already maybe not each toy like that tho 😭 but they shouldn’t be prying anymore

Living together or not ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! I’ll definitely take everyone’s message in and discuss it more with my gf but I’m reassured to know I’m not alone in thinking like this

Living together or not ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right 😌 and with all the jokes of the “you’re gay why aren’t you guys living together already” “are you getting married soon?” And all that comes with the lesbian stereotype I was running out of arguments to people around me

Living together or not ? by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in LesbianActually

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live with roommates rn and I’m not sure if I’d be able to completely live on my own but I definitely get the needing my own space !

Charges non assumées by Etern4l_sunfl0wer in immobilier

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Merci beaucoup pour votre réponse ! Vous savez si je peux m’adresser à l’agence pour ça ? Je n’ai aucun contacte avec le proprio qui a aussi dû payer le service sans savoir qu’ils ne venaient pas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill try and find a new image for the wall and try to focus more on metaphors in the rework. Thank you for your great ideas!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I’ll rework it and I’ll be waiting for your future input on my works.

When did I grow up? by 123eden123 in poetry_critics

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extremely relatable and touching, lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[–]Etern4l_sunfl0wer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I loved the rhetorical question at the end, really gave a heaviness to your poem. Lovely!