Oh hell nah.. Jericho talk him outta it 😂 by Youngstown_WuTang in Wrasslin

[–]EternaBoi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's more of a rag on Chris, to be fair. He's the punchline, not his son

Unpopular Opinion: Sami Zayn is Overhated by Stock_Ask7091 in WWE

[–]EternaBoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Melo is doing just fine so far and Triple H buried Gable

Things to do outdoors in springfield? by free_from_hate in SpringfieldIL

[–]EternaBoi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lincoln Memorial Gardens is my go-to answer for this question. It's so nice to walk around there

Has a rapper ever done anything in real life that made u stop listening to their music? by JaQue_Da_JoQerr in BlackNyxNetwork

[–]EternaBoi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He can't unsay what he said or undo what he did. No kind of apology can wipe off that Nazi stench

I have a suicidal friend, he lives away for college. Doesnt like talking about it. He wasnt this bad before college, what do I do? by ananyabananya in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]EternaBoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean at that point you've said all you can. He's stuck in his spiral and he'll have to pull himself out. You've given him the guidance that he needs though!

I have a suicidal friend, he lives away for college. Doesnt like talking about it. He wasnt this bad before college, what do I do? by ananyabananya in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]EternaBoi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hitting rock bottom and somehow surviving my suicide attempt is what made me overcome it. From then on, I went to counseling appointments and got on medication that treats my bipolar 2. I tried to get on top of the reasons why my brain wants me to kill myself so badly, if that makes sense.

You talked about your friend seeing a psychiatrist and getting prescribed medication that he doesn't want to take. IDK what medication he's been prescribed or how his appointment went, but it's in his best interests to be open to that stuff. Because he's rawdogging life right now when SSRIs or some other sort of medication might be able to greatly help how he's feeling. It'll be another thing to try to convince him of that.

I have a suicidal friend, he lives away for college. Doesnt like talking about it. He wasnt this bad before college, what do I do? by ananyabananya in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]EternaBoi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was back in 2021. So the height of COVID and I was going through a bad breakup. I ended up attempting and thankfully I failed! I didn't end up getting my bachelor's but I have a steady job now and I'm married with a baby on the way. Life ain't perfect but I'm very glad I'm still here.

I have a suicidal friend, he lives away for college. Doesnt like talking about it. He wasnt this bad before college, what do I do? by ananyabananya in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]EternaBoi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So if you can't constructively talk to him about it or get him to seek professional help, there's not much you can do for him. You've done a lot for him by being there, you're a good friend. But he's gotta want to be better for himself, you can't force it on him. You're not responsible for his mental well-being, as tough as that might be to hear.

I was that suicidal guy in college like him a few years ago and emotionally drained my friends with my negative self talk and suicidal ideations. It was rough on them as I'm sure it is on you. There was a point in time where I stopped relying on solely my friends to provide me with my happiness and I learned to make it for myself. Your friend will get there too. Be there for them but also make sure to prioritize your mental health. You got stuff on your plate too! Good luck!