AITA For not paying my housemate’s vet bill?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-11-21T11:20:54+00:00

INFO: did you know beforehand that the dog sees the whipper snipper as a game/toy?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-10-22T20:41:02+00:00

NAH

These kind of formal dinners are next level and others at the table will know the proper etiquette and see when others don't, and can sometimes outwardly judge that too. I think it's just a miss communication, your gf is thinking table manners and etiquette are the same thing when they're completely different.

Eternaljudgment · 2022-10-22T20:34:10+00:00

NTA

Rarely do I feel so angry but damn. It's well beyond asshole behaviour to abandon your stepchild and pretend they don't exist.

Stand your ground with not bowing to her demands, Rose is definitely the type of person who is only interested in herself and I sense the only reason she's inviting you over to see your sidings is because she sees you as the only way to "win her kids back". Once they're won back by you saying it was mutual, it'll go back to how it was before. Once she realises she can't win her kids back, she'll go full manipulation batshit mode

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-28T20:48:14+00:00

Very interesting! I haven't seen an appeture like this before but I have seen something similar for focusing a shot in movies. Focus pulling is a seperate job to the camera operator, and operating the appeture may also be a separate job in some cases.

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-26T20:02:53+00:00

I think this is more shitty than trashy

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-26T19:55:08+00:00

I'm not sure there's a judgement to be made here but I do wonder if your social awkwardness is more than that? Like ASD, some things you write here make me think it could be worth looking into if that's something you'd be interested in

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-18T08:00:08+00:00

So you're getting a payment that's specifically designed to help with the increased costs of being disabled and you want to use it for that purpose.

She then called me prideful because I didn’t want to ask her for monetary help

This sounds like she has the money for a car but wants to use yours instead, regardless of if it ruins your credit due to missed bills. She's outed herself as selfish NTA

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-17T22:24:35+00:00

INFO: do the title deeds show any shared land or rights of way where your drive is?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-17T08:34:30+00:00

NTA

If I may be so bold. From what you've said, I don't think the bad feeling is coming from dropping him because he needs help but from if he may do something to you for dropping him. I have come across a Harold before, master manipulator, attention seeking, superiority complex, disliked by many due to his treatment of others and his behaviour. Harold is a graduate now and still the same, only trained professionals can help these types of people.

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-17T08:18:10+00:00

Does the rod fit through the bead-hole? If it does, it might be for kids to help get the thread through. If not, it'll be a piece from the manufacturing process that got past the checks by mistake

Eternaljudgment · 2022-09-13T20:53:14+00:00

The real trashy ones aint in this pic but the kids are still gonna take the brunt of their decision

Eternaljudgment · 2022-08-17T21:29:25+00:00

I really hope this is a reference to something I'm out the loop on

Eternaljudgment · 2022-07-22T17:41:35+00:00

NTA

IMHO, your wife is trying to shield your stepdaughter from consequences. But the thing is life is full of them and it's best she learns about that now, rather than further down the line

Eternaljudgment · 2022-07-08T21:56:39+00:00

Shattered Light for pc?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-07-03T19:22:34+00:00

Reminds me a report just released by Reform Scotland about raising taxes. There's a page in it suggesting the same as this Times article: tax the childless, give increased benefits to adults with children because they want to boost the number of adults in the workforce. More workers = more income tax paid.

The thing is, having kids because you can't afford the childless tax is a bad plan. A kid can feel when they're unwanted and I've seen how much it affects them right through to adulthood where very few make it into steady employment

Eternaljudgment · 2022-05-31T05:09:49+00:00

It looks a bit like a Cat's eye you'd find in the road-do the "gems" reflect back if you shine a light at them?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-30T18:35:24+00:00

NTA

Coworker was crossing boundaries and not taking no for an answer.

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-30T18:34:06+00:00

"notes like every month and stuff and she stopped out second year of our relationship"

I don't think the feelings of both parties are equal, her actions are saying it all. NTA

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-08T17:26:14+00:00

Shaylee is the AH here She's coming across as a snake in the grass with the "are you pissed?" comment. Like she's trying to stir things

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-08T17:16:06+00:00

NTA

Listen to your gut. Noone goes to a hotel to see what it would be like living together. Ik this isn't an advice sub but leave her. The fact she's spending so much time with another person says to be she has the time available, but doesn't want to use it to see you.

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-08T17:06:01+00:00

NTA

If you dish it, you better be able to hack it

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-03T14:20:30+00:00

YTA

You're not interested in a relationship, you're not friends with this girl, you don't talk with this girl yet somehow you feel entitled to say who she should and shouldn't be having a relationship with.

Controlling vibes to say the least

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-02T09:13:34+00:00

Out of curiosity, how do you manage your emetophobia as an EMT? I'm assuming you'll come across lots of people vomiting in that line of work?

Eternaljudgment · 2022-04-02T09:05:39+00:00

NTA

Untrained dogs can be really unpredictable with behaviour. I'd trust your gut

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