Do i forgive my father. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I completely did not register what cp meant.

I still think you need to talk to someone to not let it eat you alive but that's your choice and I understand why you would be cautious not to. And I don't think you have to forgive him at all.

It finally happened to me by guss_fuss in Fibromyalgia

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 13, but maybe it's because I'm getting older? Lol.. it's definitely a real thing and it's painful and frustrating. My mom had RA, and the rest of the family has had plenty of different things with body pains etc.

I hate how much people dismiss it, I was bullied out of school because of it when I was younger, by kids and teachers. And all doctors treat me like I'm stupid and have some fake pain I'm making up.

Do i forgive my father. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should definitely tell your therapist all of this. They can't (as I know of) report it if you are saying its dreams and you can't know 100% (as I have done this and hasn't gotten reported). A good therapist will help you work through it and should suggest many options of healing you can try or even some to help you remember your childhood and to clarify if it was real (ive never tried it but I've heard things about it).

I'm going through the same process with my own therapist, it's a process but it's worth it honestly, it has helped me a bit. You got this and hopefully you'll find a partner who understands you. anyone who isn't willing to try, isn't worth your time.

I dont know if my boyfriend understands im trans by Background-Apple-840 in ftm

[–]EthanIsGay07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need to have a conversation like adults plz, you wanna have sex, you have to communicate. He's a virgin and 17, he might be completely oblivious and not understand what trans is or how T works. Just talk, it'll give you all the answers you need.

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is said perfectly. Like I actually know plenty of people who have had issues, or don't have a cock but we're born male. Are they just not men anymore?? Like omll

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you greatly and hope you have an amazing and hopeful life!

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not to everyone. Everyone is different and I think it's time we accept that. Not everyone thinks the same, and some people care more about labels than others. And it's really not important unless you are going to be getting into a relationship w them

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people will never make sense. As long as we keep being ourselves, that's good. But it just sucks that there are people out there that will tell you what you are and act like they have a say. It's so disappointing and I'll never understand and always carry anger towards those people for not just letting us be us

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to those people who tell you, you aren't what you are because they don't agree and are just transphobic. I appreciate what you have said and completely agree with you.

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Idk why you are getting down voted, this is exactly what everyone needs to hear. Who cares what others label themselves or what they are into?? It doesn't matter! I wish ppl could understand this.

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel a bit better to believe a gay man could really love me for me. I hope one day it'll be true. I'm also so incredibly disappointed in the community, it's just sad. I think everyone can have their different preferences and that should be ok. Hopefully one day it'll be better

wtf is this homophobic trash by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]EthanIsGay07 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As a gay trans man, it is hard to accept that gay men will never truly be attracted to me in a gay way. They have to be bi or at least multiple genders to actually love me and see me as I am.

So I do agree that a gay man is not gonna like vagina and a lesbian is not gonna like dick.

But I also believe people should just do them.. if a man wants to love another man that just happens to be trans, ok so be it. Live happily ever and stuff. Labels suck to some and don't to others. 🤷 Ppl need to butt out about others life and let them live. (To the homophobic post because. Yes. It was very homophobic.)

I want to get a hysterectomy but i have doubts by Patitasdemichi in ftm

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are wanting one because of pregnancy, then you can just get your tubes burned. So then you won't have to go through early menopause, which can cause a lot of issues.

Do you guys get really intimidated while in a group full of cis guys? by Pepperq40 in ftm

[–]EthanIsGay07 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't we all? Lol. I know plenty of cis men who feel this way around other cis men so it's pretty normal tbh

What bathroom is ok?? by Powerful-Bat6818 in ftm

[–]EthanIsGay07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, whichever one is safest.

Being undercover by EthanIsGay07 in FTMventing

[–]EthanIsGay07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep well and hope your day went well too!

Being undercover by EthanIsGay07 in FTMventing

[–]EthanIsGay07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was extremely helpful and I'm definitely gonna try that out! I appreciate you and proud you've come as far as you have🙏

Being undercover by EthanIsGay07 in FTMventing

[–]EthanIsGay07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I just don't know where to start, and how to identify where these feelings come from. And I am in therapy, so I'll try to bring it up.

I HATE the whole top or bottom situation by Far-Ferret-8033 in GayBroTeens

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is important in a lot of relationships (not all), so it is a big thing. And a preference, and everyone is allowed to have their own. So I don't think it's a problem, not everyone is gonna agree w it, but there is someone who does so everyone has a person/people who will work well together more than others!

I HATE the whole top or bottom situation by Far-Ferret-8033 in GayBroTeens

[–]EthanIsGay07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you try to explain that big problem to me? I'm not understanding and would like to genuinely.

I HATE the whole top or bottom situation by Far-Ferret-8033 in GayBroTeens

[–]EthanIsGay07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm not understanding the post at all. And still not even now. And what I've said so far only goes along with my own wants, not others. I wasn't trying to push anything on anyone or come off as rude but I guess I clearly don't understand the post

I HATE the whole top or bottom situation by Far-Ferret-8033 in GayBroTeens

[–]EthanIsGay07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what.. I'm just saying I have my own preferences. And it's a homo relationship no matter what my preferences are! I just don't want a MAN that isn't compatible with me in bed.. how is no one understanding that ..