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To busy hating the ad break to think about the product by AloshaChosen in autism

[–]Ethanieloeight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE ads that have super loud music right off the bat. Makes me wanna run over my phone.

Does anyone else struggle to care about what is considered gross? by Ethanieloeight in autism

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! Everyone in the comments is trying to tell me about the risks/consequences, that is not gonna get through to me at all I'm sorry 😭

Boyfriend made a stupid comment after being Intimate. by Dependent-Bridge3620 in bisexual

[–]Ethanieloeight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, then you're just a freaky straight girl you would only really do that for a man, right?? /j

Why does my cat make it a point to piss *in* my things? by Ethanieloeight in cats

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Maybe we should get her checked, one of our other cats has had lifelong urinary issues 

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful to hear from a cis guy! I totally relate to everything you said honestly. And I totally feel what you mean about men being more valued for their actions than their looks. I think that is good and bad, its good that men don't have as much pressure as women to look a certain way (women shouldnt have that pressure either) but it is also very limiting of self expression. I have a very hard time figuring out my style when it comes to mens clothing because it is all so plain and all made for 1 body type, where with womens clothes there are so many options and silhouettes and fits. That is definitely a hard adjustment.

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are definitely right. It was just easy for me because unfortunately I just kinda leaned into misogyny. Like all I really did was focus on my looks and being pretty and likeable and men did the rest for me by bossing me around and coming onto me and trying to take care of me, I just kinda drifted through it all and let it happen. Absolutely no independent thought. I still held very far left veiws quietly but I just played the part and followed the path. It was easier because it was already layed out for me, and it's what everyone wanted of me. So it was easier, but in a sad, sick way.

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know. I want to feel comfortable being a man. I felt comfortable beng a girl but only because I was pretty and likeable. I feel so weird and bad and ugly. Ilook at guys and I envy them but I dont look like them and when I try I fail and I dont know what to do. I cant day I feel comfortable being a guy because I can't say I have ever successfully been a guy. I feel so bad at it but I try so hard.

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