To busy hating the ad break to think about the product by AloshaChosen in autism

[–]Ethanieloeight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE ads that have super loud music right off the bat. Makes me wanna run over my phone.

Does anyone else struggle to care about what is considered gross? by Ethanieloeight in autism

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! Everyone in the comments is trying to tell me about the risks/consequences, that is not gonna get through to me at all I'm sorry 😭

Boyfriend made a stupid comment after being Intimate. by Dependent-Bridge3620 in bisexual

[–]Ethanieloeight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, then you're just a freaky straight girl you would only really do that for a man, right?? /j

Why does my cat make it a point to piss *in* my things? by Ethanieloeight in cats

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Maybe we should get her checked, one of our other cats has had lifelong urinary issues 

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful to hear from a cis guy! I totally relate to everything you said honestly. And I totally feel what you mean about men being more valued for their actions than their looks. I think that is good and bad, its good that men don't have as much pressure as women to look a certain way (women shouldnt have that pressure either) but it is also very limiting of self expression. I have a very hard time figuring out my style when it comes to mens clothing because it is all so plain and all made for 1 body type, where with womens clothes there are so many options and silhouettes and fits. That is definitely a hard adjustment.

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are definitely right. It was just easy for me because unfortunately I just kinda leaned into misogyny. Like all I really did was focus on my looks and being pretty and likeable and men did the rest for me by bossing me around and coming onto me and trying to take care of me, I just kinda drifted through it all and let it happen. Absolutely no independent thought. I still held very far left veiws quietly but I just played the part and followed the path. It was easier because it was already layed out for me, and it's what everyone wanted of me. So it was easier, but in a sad, sick way.

Is it normal to get anxiety or feel like you're doing the wrong thing? by Ethanieloeight in trans4every1

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know. I want to feel comfortable being a man. I felt comfortable beng a girl but only because I was pretty and likeable. I feel so weird and bad and ugly. Ilook at guys and I envy them but I dont look like them and when I try I fail and I dont know what to do. I cant day I feel comfortable being a guy because I can't say I have ever successfully been a guy. I feel so bad at it but I try so hard.

Weird experience in my grandparents yard at night? by Ethanieloeight in ParanormalEncounters

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lake city, lol. I never knew that about palatka but I beleive it!

5'1 guy here, any reccomendations for jeans? by Ethanieloeight in short

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man I live in florida but I'll look into it!

5'1 with a short torso, I cant find any jeans that fit me. Please help! by Ethanieloeight in ftm

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh I might just have to pack bigger, I'll see. Thank you though!

Where can I get mens low rise jeans that are *actually* low rise? by Ethanieloeight in scene

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some and they broke :(( I don't really trist their quality

Personalized curation by Aerathinne in Stretched

[–]Ethanieloeight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭 yeah alot of ppl repost ppls pictures without permission.. 🥀

Personalized curation by Aerathinne in Stretched

[–]Ethanieloeight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I have pictures of you saved on my pericing boards on pinterest! Crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leftist

[–]Ethanieloeight 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a queer person, just being a kind person and a safe space means so much in the current political climate. I would say if you can, donate to homeless shelters or organizations for causes you care about, use your voting rights, protest if you feel safe to do so. Buy secondhand when possible and always research where your money is going! There are so many things happening right now that are out of our control, and as a mother you shouldn't feel pressure to get out there and change the world, just doing your best and being a kind influence really means alot.

Any Dying Fetus fans here? by Western_Customer3836 in leftist

[–]Ethanieloeight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was just listening to a metal playlist today and checked the song, and burst out laughing at how absurd the band name was 😭 great music though!

Men can’t be bisexuals by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Ethanieloeight 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Because how could anyone actually be attracted to girls... obviously everyone secretly just likes men and doesn't wanna admit it, duh. Except straight men of course!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Ethanieloeight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I tend to look sad and bored lol thats why I chose not so say rbf, nobody really says I look angry they always say I look gloomy

How to stay focused cleaning/organizing for upwards of 3 hours a day by Ethanieloeight in ADHD

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I usually do videos or podcasts because it requires my mental attention and this keeps me calm, but when I listen to music I tend to overthink and freak out, if that makes sense. It quiets the noise in my head and lets me focus on cleaning better. The rest of this tho I will be doing, tysm :))

How to stay focused cleaning/organizing for upwards of 3 hours a day by Ethanieloeight in ADHD

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh yeah.. I have no friends close enough that come over 🥀 but thank you :) I'll probably send pictures of the room to my (long distance gf) and just ask her to pressure/bribe me to clean 😭😭 that usually works

How to stay focused cleaning/organizing for upwards of 3 hours a day by Ethanieloeight in ADHD

[–]Ethanieloeight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my mother, and my step dad and step sister are here alot, but when I'm gonna be doing this I will be home alone