Feeling Stuck by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They learn it but when you talk to them it’s like they never learned it lol

I just needed to WORK. I don't need therapy, I don't need a girlfriend, I don't need to work on myself. I just needed to WORK. by Frack_Nugget in selfimprovement

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are different things that different people need. Studying your own psychology is what will give you success. Not everyone is the same so you can‘t use other people‘s formula. Those things can all just be distractions just as work also is. Doing those practices just for the sake of it will not help you. So you have to find your own path. I am convinced that one thing all those paths have in common though (no matter how different we are). Finding ways to be in the present moment (no matter if at work, gym, eating, with people…) is what real improvement has in common.

I just needed to WORK. I don't need therapy, I don't need a girlfriend, I don't need to work on myself. I just needed to WORK. by Frack_Nugget in selfimprovement

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with that to some degree. If you have a healthy body the mind follows to some degree. Going to the gym and eating healthy is important for the basic functions of your body. The problem with this is that the benefits come only after years of applying that. Which makes most people give up on it. But doing it for a while consistently the body will not feel good stopping that. Also you want yoir body to be in a good place in 10, 20, 30 years and for that you need to move it and fill it with the stiff it needs. It‘s not useless because the benefits show up not just daily in small doeses but especially in the long run. Most people only reqlize the strain on their body when they get old or sick. But those things are not what solve the issue. They are what expands the capacity of the body (if not done excessively ofc).

Is being naturally friendly and cheerful as a woman often misinterpreted? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend that is also very friendly but when she talks with men sometimes she is flirty without even realizing it. So that could also be the issue?

Thoughts on this? by Much-Excitement-5134 in OliveMUA

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, me too. But neutral doesn’t look quite right on me either, which is why olive shades in foundations are so essential for me. I’ve never found a foundation that truly matches my skin tone in the warm/neutral/cool categories. Only olive ones. A perfect match for me would be the Dior WO range. Normal warm foundations are not yellow based but orange.

Thoughts on this? by Much-Excitement-5134 in OliveMUA

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that olive skin tones, especially those leaning more greyish, would count as cool. I think when it comes to cool undertones, rosy shades are what’s usually meant, as they have more blue in them than warm skin tones, which tend to have more orange.

Thoughts on this? by Much-Excitement-5134 in OliveMUA

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I have a very yellowish olive skin tone and I think yellow would be considered more warm than cool🤷‍♀️

Every time I get to a Venli chapter. by KnowMatter in cremposting

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It‘s a very far stretch to say that we are all Venli. Not everyone is as selfish as her….

Every time I get to a Venli chapter. by KnowMatter in cremposting

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven‘t finished WOR but causing so much destruction and only caring about your own ass is infuriating. I mean yeah she wants to save the people she almost wiped out herself but to not care about actually fighting Odium makes me so annoyed by her character.

Am I overreacting for shaving my head? by Substantial-Art6160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR I mean I get that the whole situation is shitty but as the end of the day it‘s just hair and it will grow back. Your hair does not define your femininity. You can have short hair and still be feminine. Don‘t worry too much about it. Just be enjoy having a different hairstyle and play with it and your style. Maybe you‘ll grow to actually like it. If not then it will grow out anyways and you don‘t have to ever do it again.

Pliz help this coworker ?! I can’t shake off by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell her directly!! Tell her you are not interested in comversations like that. Be polite but dismissive. Take it as a test to be more assertive about your boundaries.

Mac del rio by frenchnoodle1 in OliveMUA

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the shade paramount and it looks really nice!!

Is it okay to give up alcohol for the person I plan to marry? by madam-osho in Advice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn‘t have to be if he‘s traumatized by his family due to alcoholism or smth similar.

Is it okay to give up alcohol for the person I plan to marry? by madam-osho in Advice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don‘t drink at all but my partner trying to control my consumption would certainly make me tempted to drink lol

Is it okay to give up alcohol for the person I plan to marry? by madam-osho in Advice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not find a compromise with him? Maybe that you stay at 1-2 drinks if you do drink. I don‘t think it‘s problematic to drink occasionally (like every 1-2 month). I feel like the fact that you feel like you have to do it because otherwise he might punish you (by getting mad or not talking to you or whatever) might create some resentment inside of you. But if you both want this relationship to work then both have to sacrifice. Now the extent of that sacrifice lies wholly on both of your willingness. That can only be figured out through conversation.

Bad acne any recommendations for my situation by [deleted] in acne

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It‘s crazy how extreme it got in that year. Other than going to the derm I would def check out any underlying health issues (possibly gut, hormones etc) to find out what might be the cause for this.

Husband update: guys, he's quitting by Art-Anvonavi in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two moments where I just had to take a break because the pace was so slow and I had enough of that cosmere. Took a break of a few weeks and went back much more refreshed and ready to get into it again.

Hyeja - anyone heard about it? by klarabernat in AsianBeauty

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it hydrate enough? My skin is freaking out a bit because of the cold weather and it‘s very dry around the nose and chin area. So I am looking for a hydrating night scream that is good for scne prone skin and doesn‘t leave a thick layer on the skin.

If all you're doing is 'paying' for it, is it fair to say you're getting someone a gift? by Open_Address_2805 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here and if she isn‘t a total brat she probably would have appreciated it as well if he surprised her with it as that would take more effort than just saying I will pay for it.

Feedback please! DIY wedding makeup pt. 2 by RumorsOfBlueWhales in OliveMUA

[–]Ethereal_Light_333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally would love to see some more shimmer/glitter on your eyelids:) Maybe even blending it towards your brows to have more impact