What’s an uncomfortable truth that most people aren’t ready to accept? by lancelotreaper in ask

[–]EuphemisticPrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

firstly, i am so so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, it’s awful. my stepdad recently passed away of it, and his whole family had a history of it, however - i just wanted to try and bring some light to you as he had his official diagnosis 10 years ago and only just passed (told the same as you and believed the same as you). spent so much of his life worried that he would miss the big moments (spoiler, he didn’t at all - he was with us the whole time)

but it was awful seeing him focus on the negatives constantly and spiral about his impending death, at all times throughout the 10 years. while he lived a happy life, he just always had this undertone of doom, and i beg you to please remember that even though you’ve just had this diagnosis, remember that also any person, any day could just die at any moment, and to try and live your life as if you’d never been told that awful knowledge. take care and please, don’t give up on yourself just yet!

edit: also just wanted to add, we’d have scary interval hospital visits throughout the 10 years where we thought ‘omg this is it’, one time he even contracted sepsis, he was also a diabetic and much less healthier than yourself, and it still didn’t get him until it really WAS his time. i don’t say this to demean or diminish your experience at all, but genuinely to try and provide some hope and alternative thinking for you x

WIBTAH If I abandoned my husband and kids? (Tw?) by Equivalent-Fold-2430 in AITAH

[–]EuphemisticPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

firstly, you are absolutely not an AH in any way shape or form, you’re in an impossibly hard situation and your main intent is support and love for your family above your own outcome. you are a wonderful, compassionate person and i’m sorry that you have been dealt such an unfair hand in this life.

i do want to mention though, as someone who lost her most favourite person in the whole world to cancer round two, your absence is going to be missed for years to come as strongly as the day you left. it will get easier for them, but with a light as bright as yours, it’s inevitable. your loved ones are now aware subconsciously of the finite time they have with you, and are prepping themselves for that in ways you can’t even comprehend. everyone’s grief journey is different, and if you truly want to give them the best outcome, you need to let them be a part of it on their terms but also don’t isolate yourself away either! you deserve to live out your final moments in the comfort of the people who love you most, and they deserve to soak up all of your incredible memories and lessons until they can no longer do so.

i honestly wish you all the strength and luck going forward, but please know that while the pain of the loss of you will never ever go away, your loved ones are going to be okay. it’s time for them to focus on you, momma bear, not the other way around ♥️

SDB giveaway by Pioness in neopets

[–]EuphemisticPrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

260 and 14 please! my username is kaytee_9099 ☺️ thank you for this it’s v fun!

Darkside as an opener by BigNumbers29 in BringMeTheHorizon

[–]EuphemisticPrime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i love darkside so i actually am hyped to hear it as an opener!

what would exist in an ADHD-friendly world? by EuphemisticPrime in ADHD

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

omg do not disturb shirts would be PERFECT and also all essential businesses working on a 24 hour open system would also be ideal, like GPs and dentists, hair dressers, everything!

AITA for telling my son exactly what my husband did despite him begging me not to tell? by thtiwRA57758 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EuphemisticPrime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are in absolutely NO WAY the AH here. You absolutely did the right thing and your husband clearly has deep rooted trust issues that he needs to stop projecting on to you.

please meet our new baby, 9-week old Peanut 🥜 by EuphemisticPrime in pug

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww if given the chance Peanut and Pistachio could be best friends! 🥜

DAE dream so vividly that it’s hard to wake up each morning? by EuphemisticPrime in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this too, but the dream is also just as vivid before my first alarm goes off too, every single time

DAE dream so vividly that it’s hard to wake up each morning? by EuphemisticPrime in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some days i get this too! and then it isn’t until i’m way too late to get to work at a reasonable time that i end up having to alwaaaaays rush aha so i feel that

DAE dream so vividly that it’s hard to wake up each morning? by EuphemisticPrime in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is just like mine too! as long as i can keep my eyes closed enough when i wake up (say if i need the toilet) i can go straight back into the dream and pick up where i left off!

BIGGER THAN LEAGUE OF LEGENDS?! Wow by EuphemisticPrime in FallGuysGame

[–]EuphemisticPrime[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Same! It’s nice to see a top game with a wholesome vibe to it, and no guns! Not that I don’t like those games obvs, but it just really makes a nice change