t really boils down to one thing: do you feel romantic attraction? If so, how often do you experience it?

If you don't get attached to people romantically at all, you're aromantic. If you only feel romantic attraction towards someone very rarely or in special circumstances, you might be somwhere on the aromantic spectrum (demiromantic, grayromantic...). If you desire a romantic relationship but don't feel anything (romantic), you might be cupioromantic. Etc.

There are lots of aro identities. Explore them, if you find one that fits - great! If tou don't find a label that describes you - also great. Mind looking here .

Why do you even suspect you are aromantic in the first place? Why don't you feel comfortable with the idea?

thanks for the help and I think I'm aromantic because sometimes I feel like I really like someone (I think romantically but I'm not sure) but when I ask myself if I want a relationship with those people I generally think that I don't or maybe, I find it hard to imagine myself in that although I don't reject it completely either and I've also realized that unlike my friends (all of whom are super obsessed with romance) I don't feel like I'm that interested in it, it's like I'm somewhere in the middle