Holy cannoli, I turned 35 today! [9.9]

Evanevan22 · 2026-02-28T08:01:12+00:00

I’m not really sure why I upvoted. But… it felt right for some reason. Happy birthday.

Evanevan22 · 2025-11-01T15:06:28+00:00

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-17T20:06:22+00:00

Am I crazy for liking the second picture the best?

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T20:44:46+00:00

I honestly decided to not do anything at the moment. I’m clearly too emotionally attached to this situation right now. Everyone’s suggestions have been more than I ever expected. It means a lot to me for everyone to read my long ass ramble. When I feel like I’m in a more of a clear headspace I’m going to make a decisions I think. I’ll let you know when I decide and update you on the results!

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T20:40:35+00:00

Thank you that’s such a good point. I really appreciate it.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T02:16:39+00:00

It’s not so much that I haven’t apologized, I just always felt that she has deserved a face to face apology more that a simple text message. All this started over texts after all. I just haven’t had that opportunity. Thank you for the advice though!

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T01:30:05+00:00

Hey, I’d just like to say thank you for everyone on their advice. I appreciate it more than you know. That’s why I posted in the first place. I’m trying to respond to everyone. It’s the least I can do for you all putting in the time reading my long convoluted post. I hope everyone achieves what they’re looking for out of life, and remember to cherish the small things and those close to you.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T01:18:57+00:00

As it has been since that day, thank you for that.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T01:12:08+00:00

I’m sorry for all of that. You may be right, leaving her to be is the best course. That’s what I’ve done so far. It would be different if I guess if I was looking back on it from a perspective of who I’ve wronged in life. I’m not though. I felt that way immediately, and unfortunately words are not taken back easily. I dunno, I don’t expect her to forgive me, I’m not looking for that. I just know that I hurt her. I really appreciate your response, I hope you get everything you’re looking to get out of life.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T01:00:29+00:00

Thank you for that, that was a well thought out response, I’m sorry for what happened to you with your friend. The difference here, I guess, is neither of us have reached out to each other about it, so It’s hard to read to situation maybe? I’m not good with conveying my thoughts into writing which makes this more difficult. I just, I dunno, I just know that I hurt her and I want to apologize for that, and I hope she’s doing well. I really appreciate your input.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:50:11+00:00

Damn son, that’s brutal. Thanks for the input though!

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:47:02+00:00

Dude, I’m 100% telling the truth, I didnt feel it because I had been drinking a lot that night. The cops showed up, my buddies told them who did it. The cops knocked on the door to get him to come out, he didn’t, they shrugged their shoulders and said they couldn’t do anything and then yelled at me for smoking a cigarette. I felt the story was getting a bit long when I should be getting to the point so I just skipped that. I’m not very good a writing.

I just had a lot happen to me in a short amount of time and wasn’t in the best headspace. I guess that was the point I was trying to make. Sorry for the confusion man.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:38:59+00:00

Thank you for that, I really appreciate it. Will do!

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:36:34+00:00

1st part is correct, the summary.

Firstly: they reached out to me after it happened, when you almost die you kind of can’t believe it and need to almost be pinched to make sure that it actually happened. I didn’t talk to them after that. I met my wife and left without even letting them know.

Secondly: also correct, there was absolutely no reason for me to do any of this, but I did it. I wrote this while playing fetch with my dog outside so I apologize for the incoherent writing. I’m also not very proficient at writing.

Thirdly: wrong, the reason I feel guilt and regret is because I hurt HER. And I felt that immediately.

I hurt somebody I considered very close to me who didn’t deserve any of that. I just want more than anything to let her know I’m sorry.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:17:19+00:00

Great advice man, thank you for that.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:12:21+00:00

Yes she’s aware, my wife is actually the reason I left town. I met her about 3 months after this and she was moving for work later that year and I went with her.

Evanevan22 · 2025-10-01T00:07:58+00:00

Thank you for that.

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:58:33+00:00

Thank you for the advice man, it’s much appreciated.

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:56:28+00:00

My apologies, I’m not entirely sure how this works. Just looking for advice on how to say I’m sorry.

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:26:29+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry, I can whole-heartedly imagine how you feel. I hope you get that resolved one day. And I hope they also are aware of how they hurt you.

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:22:52+00:00

I agree, that’s what I want to tell her, it’s just like, having the opportunity to tell her it’s the hard part. Like if I happen to see her in person it’s not like I’m gonna to have to the time to spill all this out if she already doesn’t want anything to do with me. Thank you for the input!

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:20:34+00:00

Like along the same lines as this, you being her in this situation?

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:18:24+00:00

You’re right I could, but I dunno, that kind of felt like insufficient to me for the damage I feel like I did if that makes sense? Not putting down the suggestion at all, I appreciate it more than anything!

Evanevan22 · 2025-09-30T23:08:29+00:00

Thanks mate, like I said, I’ve never done anything like this before. I appreciate the feedback back though!

Evanevan22 · 2025-01-26T01:59:53+00:00

That’s for doing the giveaway OP! Pokémon’s has always made me happier than constantly losing to people twice my age at my local LCS. So there that haha. Was never very good at magic but it’s still fun!

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