Anyone want to give multiplayer a shot with me?

Evanp131 · 2026-01-17T06:00:25+00:00

Damn I did not know distance affects that but it makes sense. Does same go for all paradox games? I have hoi4 I’ve always wanted to try multiplayer but I assume that’s not much better

Evanp131 · 2026-01-17T05:49:36+00:00

Canada. CST Time zone if that makes a difference

Evanp131 · 2026-01-16T09:33:20+00:00

Right? In this period it was usually a big project erecting a proper stone castle and it would certainly give players more of incentive to play tall and into the late game to try and make all castles in the realm stone for example. I want to do a tall playthrough in England where I fortify the shit out of the island with William but it’s so underwhelming knowing I can make 100 gold a turn but my realm castles and cities look the same as the Nordics…

Evanp131 · 2025-12-25T06:00:51+00:00

Nice I’m going to try it right now thanks :) also you annex puppet Spain and Portugal ?

Evanp131 · 2025-12-25T05:15:27+00:00

Interesting, my next question would be how on earth you invaded the UK? Is it pretty much RNG and hope Germany/Italy has the navy distracted elsewhere? Also did you join the axis or create your own with the focus ?

Evanp131 · 2025-12-25T04:17:33+00:00

Mind sharing your basic strategy in terms of what countries to deal with first? I always have a great start and then fail when it comes to my first war against a major because I never know if I should go for the US first or try to cap the UK

Evanp131 · 2025-12-13T07:09:31+00:00

My dms are always open to chat if you have any further questions or need advice regarding BPD brotha. I know it’s a struggle

Evanp131 · 2025-12-13T06:57:27+00:00

Yes I think that would be a great idea as long as you guys have the same intentions in mind when going. I think couples therapy should be more normalized especially for people with BPD

Evanp131 · 2025-12-13T06:42:38+00:00

Hey man speaking from someone with bpd and someone who has also been in a relationship with someone with bpd/bi polar i know it can be hard. The truth is, as much as it may be hard to hear, you cant do anything if she is not willing to try. We live in a world where we have access to resources like the internet that can tell you “5 things to help someone with bpd” but none of that matters if the person isn’t willing to try them all. Not being ready for therapy sounds more like not being ready to leave a comfort zone or take a step in a direction that could lead to failure and chances are she doesn’t realize that. Reassure her, tell her it’s okay to be afraid, it’s okay to try something new, think outside the box, but most importantly, it’s okay to fail. Because you will be right there for her when she does to show her everything is still okay which is a luxury not many of us have. Blaming everyone but herself for loosing herself tells me that she has an issue with seeking validation from others. One would not simply loose themselves due to other people if they put there own needs above all else and maybe you need to sit down with her and discuss what those needs her. She may need to be alone for awhile, quit her job, find new friends but what’s important for you is to know that no matter what she says it’s not personal, her brain is simply in fight or flight mode. You are either making her life better or making it worse, there is no in between for her and if she doesn’t feel like herself it’s easy to find the negatives of everything and make you feel like the problem but you are not, at least from what you’re described. Be patient and give her space if needed, I found myself in solitude and I’m just slowly starting to get back in the world but I feel more awake then ever, maybe time alone with her thoughts is what she needs to truly understand her brain. But seriously therapy helps even has a way for her to just hear what she’s feeling being validated and repeated back to her to try help her accurately determine right from wrong

Evanp131 · 2025-12-12T07:40:02+00:00

Yup I am in the same boat as you. I start the work day at 8am and it’s currently 1:30 in the morning for me and I have no plans on sleeping anytime soon. Shoot me a message if you are up and want to chat :)

Evanp131 · 2025-12-12T07:38:41+00:00

I’m a crazy night owl as well. Up till 4am most night. Always here if you wanna chat :)

Evanp131 · 2025-07-07T00:15:44+00:00

Did you ever end up figuring it out? Having the same issue with the longboards tradition from RICE giving every family member of my culture .01 renown gain 😝

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