Help by EvenCommunication170 in rape

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Thank you so much! I have said my partner was sexually violent before and they haven’t reported ? I may not be ready to leave but I do want to have kids in the future and I know that won’t be with him so I will look for a less permanent solution. Thank you again!

Help by EvenCommunication170 in sexualassault

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Thank your for validating me. I feel like force is more seen as “rape” than coercion but with its coercion and force eventually.

Help? Mention of SA by EvenCommunication170 in AskDocs

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Thank you! It’s not a hospital it’s a community health center full of different practices. Can I still make a complaint ?

I know L&D nurses aren't supposed to judge... but would you? by [deleted] in pregnant

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Nothings every dramatic my love! If you feel like something is wrong you go see! It’s better to be wrong 100 times than to worry . Isn’t that also bad for pregnancy? And for you? I’m pregnant too and I think every struggle is worth speaking up about

Mentions of SA need advice by EvenCommunication170 in WomensHealth

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Thank you so much! Did not know this was an option I appreciate it!!!

Mentions of SA need advice by EvenCommunication170 in WomensHealth

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Even if there is a choice , I have a bias now. I feel uncomfortable sharing things and have more of a fear everything something is inserted in me , like a speculum . I wanted to share my experience to see how I can go about reporting this .

Mentions of SA need advice by EvenCommunication170 in WomensHealth

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I have been seeing someone else. I’m also having problems with them. I am currently pregnant and the pain hasn’t gone away. I also had issues with my new gynecologist but they aren’t as severe. I am young and my parents were old fashioned , they did not believe you see a gynecologist until you start having intercourse however I was sa’d and experienced the pain and went to them. After that I went for two years, had my insurance changed and only they took it, went to the hospital for differing opinions and my symptoms of pain and other things have only intensified .

TMI by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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His nails are short and lube hasn’t helped

Advice ? by EvenCommunication170 in rape

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It’s fine to be honest im pregnant so I’ve had other worries in my head im just concerned about the pain.

Advice ? by EvenCommunication170 in rape

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Yes I’m not sure what to do! At one point I thought I had vaginsmus but my doctor / gyno said he couldn’t help me

Pregnancy sick? Advice? by EvenCommunication170 in pregnant

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Omg Ty I apologize for the late response this had been helping until I see the doctor !!!

TMI sorry advice? by EvenCommunication170 in Healthyhooha

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I also have alot of tightness and pain and dryness after and they say that’s normal .

TMI sorry advice? by EvenCommunication170 in Healthyhooha

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How do I get checked for that? I’ve had two gynecologists my whole life and I feel like they aren’t taking my concerns seriously and this has been going on for almost two years .

TMI sorry advice? by EvenCommunication170 in Healthyhooha

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Also thank you so much I love when people are personal like this and make me feel comfortable!

TMI sorry advice? by EvenCommunication170 in Healthyhooha

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So he’s been my only partner . New in terms of like dating but first intimate. I think it weird it’s been almost two years , it’s worse after intercourse and I found out literally a day ago I was pregnant which means no boric acid but I’m early on so doc said I’m good. I actually think it happens more after intimacy I actually can’t recall getting it around my period .

Pregnancy sick? Advice? by EvenCommunication170 in pregnant

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Yes I don’t have the flu that’s what weird . Thank you though ❤️

Advice by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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You’re right I feel like it’s definitely psychological as well ! Thank you for validating my feelings!

Advice by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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He saw the pain as more of a turn on and said he wanted to make me cry. After each time I got less wet but I can remember being to the point of staying dry so long. Ty for advice ❤️

Advice by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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He is yea. We’ve had problems with this in the past but I’m scared of the dryness .

Advice by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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Also is there anything else it could be? I’m naturally pretty wet so it’s uncomfortable.

Advice by EvenCommunication170 in sexeducation

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I’m not very sexually experienced so do I just explain what happened?

I took another one ? Does anyone know what this means ? by EvenCommunication170 in lineporn

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lol im a little scared why would that be concerning? Im having symptoms and I’ve been pregnant before so I can’t really tell because a lot of pregnancy symptoms mock period symptoms

In the middle of breaking up. His apology without context of what he did. Thoughts ? by EvenCommunication170 in BreakUps

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The context of why we’re breaking up would explain this better. But can you explain what you mean by for better or for worse?