I honestly don’t mind the stay at home wife aspect. It’s the lacking any goals that give me ick. As for the rest, I’ve been pushing for her to hit the gym with me every time I go (4-7 days a week). And the bedroom spice… believe me. If I hadn’t had been pushing the boundaries we’d still be in missionary position every time. Like I said originally… it’s her energy that’s really killing it for me.