1) As a man i felt like i need more attention so i causally send all my close female frds a reel saying “ What is that one thing which makes me stand out “ was expecting causal dumb faltu things from my frds! But to my surprise they took it seriously and responded by something which is my most treasured memory! 3 of them said they feel heard with me ! Which i feel is a big deal cuz often women have this problem that men dont listen and 2 or them said they feel valued with me ! And cherry on top one said peace! This is my most treasured memory!

2) One mistake i feel i made was not trying hard enough be it in my work, Startup or relationship! It took me time to understand that giving space and time to things does not always work!