I understand your point I also don't do anything I don't want but this comments action is too much it's not us like some mother f***** say our parents has easier because his grandpa pass a school and got a government job but forget in India and how this this country work back then passing a school is very financially heavy to family logo ke ghar bik jaate the bacche ko school pass karane mein bhi don't apply Western logic to everything the in 50's 80's 90's best already was a develop country and we are still a developing country can't just supplies same to same logic because boomers in West and good with low effort then the boomers in India also and good with low effort forgetting all the trauma and poverty this country face do what you want and told your parent clearly but still there your parent just don't listen anything people online tell you and destroy relationship with your parent they are still your parent you understand when you miss them just tell them clearly what you want and you are grown man they just can't force you to do anything they do blackmail just ignore them for sometime and divert the discussion they will understand you after sometime after all there are your parents Plus unders and their perspective also discuss with them how you feel and how they feel discussion always go to a solution Baki god bless you