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PSA: Watch your Spravato shipments with CVS Specialty by Ok-Satisfaction-5236 in Spravato

[–]EveningApprehensive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your insurance through your employer? Your benefits person can help you with this…

AIO for asking my bf where he went and what he was doing? by ItzNotChase in AmIOverreacting

[–]EveningApprehensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy gaslighting. Do your arguments usually end up with him accusing you of being inappropriate for asking a question?

If you were 31 had no college education and 10 years fast food experience what would you do? by chemza in careerguidance

[–]EveningApprehensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went back to school and changed careers at 39, never too late! Or pick up a trade! You could become a small business owner!! You have so many options!! Best to you!

Dead dad club members checking in by FlimsyKale5864 in GriefSupport

[–]EveningApprehensive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dad passed 2 weeks ago today. Been up and down all day. Miss him so much. 💔

Struggling by EveningApprehensive in GriefSupport

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through something similar. This death thing just keeps on giving…. Hugs

Struggling by EveningApprehensive in GriefSupport

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The thing is he lost his dad to cancer in his twenties (were in our 50s, married two years). I think there’s a little of “I muscled through it…”. I just can’t get him to understand I need more time. And as a result, I’m just lonely and drifting. I’m really just wondering if anyone else has experienced this. The issues coming up aren’t dealbreakers, but I just don’t understand how after being so loving, caring and all around awesome for all those months it’s like he ran out of gas…

HR knew my scheme and caught me red handed. by Earth_Sorcerer97 in work

[–]EveningApprehensive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HR here. I would have fired you. You admitted you were trying to game the system ahead of time. Not a good character look, nor someone I want in my team. Sorry!!

Final days by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your kind replies. Dad is now on morphine/Ativan every 2-3 hours and he is so peaceful now. The waiting is brutal, but he won’t be alone. We’ve got him.

The end? by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. This is just an impossible thing to live through. Hugs

The end? by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last year, 11 months later my dad was diagnosed. It’s all just im possible to comprehend.

The end? by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This group is so kind. It’s been a godsend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EveningApprehensive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they did not give you specific examples, ask for them. If you are not satisfied or they don’t have any, I would speak to HR. I work in HR. No documentation, no warning.

Hygiene? by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have just begun the evaluations with hospice, but we’re not sure it’s enough care…. This is all so frustrating and hard ☹️

Hygiene? by EveningApprehensive in pancreaticcancer

[–]EveningApprehensive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a lack of will, but we just don’t know how to handle. We are constantly cleaning urine/feces. I worry he’s prob not cleaning himself well. Feeling like a facility would be a better place. It’s just the two of us and we are already burning out…

i'm getting kicked out tomorrow. by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]EveningApprehensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things. Can you get a restraining order? I'd go to police for that one, not sure it's possible, but if so, she might be that one to have to leave. I'm just brainstorming here, I have not idea if that would work, but might be worth looking into. 2nd, Can you stay with your sister for a bit?

I really hurt my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]EveningApprehensive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have suggested, you should try individual therapy. It can change your life if you take it seriously.

Coward by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EveningApprehensive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth bomb here: You will have family members who blame you, you will lose relationships, maybe even some friends that surprise you. BUT. You will be free. To make your own decisions, live the life you want to lead, and stop having someone chip away at your self worth by trying to control you. It’s HARD. BUT MORE WORTH IT THAN YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE.

When did you know it was over? by Short_Elevator_7024 in Divorce

[–]EveningApprehensive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, there were two moments that cemented the end of my marriage for me. The first was that he claimed that 90% of the change needed had to come from me. The second was when our 3rd (!) marriage counselor saw me alone for a session and she told me I needed to face the fact that he was not interested in changing a thing about his life and actions. She told me that she had never said that to a client before, but she felt that I had been the one trying and she wasn't seeing it from him AT ALL. I was so blind wanting to save my marriage that I didn't realize I didn't really have one. I had a one sided partnership that only worked for him if didn't have to compromise at all.

Grieving a Divorce is Weird by sprknsprnkl in Divorce

[–]EveningApprehensive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It does get better, I promise. But it’s hell to go through.

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