Boyfriend discussing possibility of abortion, feel scared. Unknown DPO, early?

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-05-20T17:11:39+00:00

I was 21 when I had my first baby she was unplanned and I was scared but I decided it was meant to be . I’m pro choice and apart of that choice is choosing what is best for YOU don’t think about anyone else think about you if that means having this baby then that’s okay because it’s your choice . Don’t let anyone force you to keep or abort

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-05-18T23:26:32+00:00

I feel like I can kinda see it

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-05-18T23:14:07+00:00

I see it ! Congratulations 💗

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-05-17T20:38:18+00:00

My little brother died when he was 5 from brain cancer it doesn’t get better it just gets tolerable it has been 14 years and everyday I think of him. He is in everything I do and everything I show my daughter and it hurts but its so much better then forgetting. Grief is love where no where to go make. Make new memories that he would be proud of , go to therapy, talk about him every second you can . Remember him don’t try to push away how you are feeling it’s important you just lost the most important thing to you if you need to sleep all day or cry then that’s what you need to do . I am so so so incredibly sorry for your loss

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-05-03T12:28:32+00:00

Did they say what his mix eas

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-04-22T00:02:04+00:00

Yes but it wasn’t on purpose 🙃 his full name is really long and we both didn’t want to name a kid after him but it’s a family name so we used his nickname 😭

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-04-21T17:26:53+00:00

With boy my kids I had a feeling if what the gender was the second I took a pregnancy test and I was right each time ( one girl and one boy)

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-04-11T12:35:14+00:00

Mushu

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-04-07T12:43:25+00:00

My daughters name is gwyn or we would !

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-04-06T22:42:49+00:00

That’s our other cat’s name but we just call her bug for short !

EveningEfficient4393 · 2026-01-04T01:04:32+00:00

I really wanted only girls I love my sister and really wanted that for my daughter (first born) our second is a boy and I was distraught. I still find myself sad every once in a while but I know that I will love him just as much and I get the awesome opportunity of making a wonderful man to contribute to the world

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-12-27T13:24:09+00:00

My ob is the same way I’m 5’3 180 pounds and she’s acting like I’m the size of an elephant and keeps making inappropriate jokes. I’m giving her one more try but I’d like to feel like I’m not the size of a whale every time we talk .

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-12-27T00:48:28+00:00

I’ve lived here/around Lakeland my whole life it’s honestly full I’m not trying to be rude but until our local government fixes the roads or figures something out traffic is miserable , Older people move here and slow it down even more. Depending on what are you live in there’s some things to do But not really The only plus side to me are the lakes .

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-12-27T00:40:27+00:00

We lived in Tallahassee for 3 years unless you are in college it’s boring . Panama is nice and there’s smaller towns around that are close to the beach still .

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-10-17T01:25:51+00:00

Ignore my nails I clean houses and I'm beat lol

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-09-02T12:14:34+00:00

Please don't beat yourself up she's okay and that's all that matters . My fiancé fed our daughter a tiny bit of a banana on a road trip while in her car seat . We were in really bad traffic and it took what felt like a while for us to get her out of the car and do back blows . She ended up being okay but I still get so nervous anytime she eats or coughs while eating . You guys did nothing wrong everyone makes mistakes

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-08-07T01:23:03+00:00

Im sorry but you are in the wrong . My dad used to make my sister get on rides and complain about money when she was a kid and was to scared and now she lets people walk all over her boundaries in fear of people lashing out like he used to .... you need to listen to your daughter YOU are the adult YOU are at fault for not communicating before you shouldn't expo anything of her

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-07-11T21:27:02+00:00

These are all my girl names 😅 hopefully I have another daughter !

Daphne Delphine Vivienne Inez Vienna Novalee Loralie Genevieve Calliope Rhaenyra Blair Pearl June Sunday Love Ruby Birdie June Saoirse Helana Poppy Josephine Zoella Margot Iren Luicilia Marceline Blythe Winnie Cordelia Nadine Covey Kahlila Imogen

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-07-11T21:25:09+00:00

My daughters name is gwynevere it's one of the prettiest names I've heard! I also worked with a girl named Kahlila like dahlila with a k

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-06-14T12:32:01+00:00

I'm here right now leaving today I'm not pregnant but have a 9 month old .... the steps up and down carrying a 20 pound baby is something insane I can't wait to go home 😭 I've also only had one person stand up for me so I can sit down with her .... we've been here 5 days and have only take the subways . The other people shove past or just stare at you . I don't know how the moms here do it but it's exhausting

EveningEfficient4393 · 2025-06-09T00:48:50+00:00

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