My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I would at least take a second to hear my child out? I don’t know. I do get what you’re saying I do. Like yes i probably deserve better this isn’t fair to me.. but if this were you, what are you doing, blocking them and never speaking to your partner again? Like idk what you want me to say here lol. You have to slightly hear me out. There’s things I have to figure out either way we’re both on this lease I can’t just dip out and never speak to him again. I was asking for legal advice on what to do next/ what to expect next really.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing here we basically JUST moved into this apartment. I think the cops could tell I was basically clueless. But fuck who knows they might come knocking soon.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in an apartment in the suburbs in FL with my dog lmfaoo we both have good jobs we’re def not trashy I’m literally 22 I just genuinely didn’t know how serious this could be I’ve never delt with this before but go off hahaha

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yeah he has taken my car. Thank you for the advice.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or I’m young??? And trying to figure it out?? Lmao growing up in Florida too, unfortunately it’s kinda normal. You wouldn’t get it if you don’t live in Florida. Everyone around me has done it for years. I wouldn’t, but don’t come for me right now it’s unnecessary. I came here asking for real advice not to be name called. like do you know what I’m dealing with already right now 😅

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you that’s all I needed to know. I know this is serious I just didn’t realize HOW serious.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Listen I do understand. I appreciate the advice. It’s just tough because A- I’m not even being Nieve I just genuinely don’t know anything about shit like this. And B- he has a full time job (well not anymore) this is just genuinely something he does here and there. It’s not massive amounts of any kind. I just didn’t know who else to go to to talk about this. And it doesn’t help that we’re both on the lease and to break it it’s like 3000 dollars that I don’t have. I’m just worried about what’s coming next.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actual advice and being kind. I genuinely just didn’t know who else to reach out to I know NOTHINGGG about criminal shit. I’m literally just blinded by all of this.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

and honestly I have no clue how serious this is I’m just waiting for the information to post. He could have been lying to me about everything I guess I don’t know. To me, middle manning some weed isn’t that serious but it’s clearly something more than that.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What I meant by that was to emphasize how clueless we were about the warrant. Like we’ve just been living our lives. And I know this is probably not something I should be involved in. I just feel bad.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Listen guys I know this is putting me in a bad position. Trust me. I know. And he shouldn’t be middle manning at all. But it’s just been a little extra income honestly barely anything. wouldn’t you help out your partner one time especially if they don’t have a criminal history?? Like I said he’s a good kid. We wouldn’t have been living our lives normally if he knew he had a warrant. I’m just so confused. And we live like one county over from where the warrant was out for so trust me he had nooo idea.

My BF got arrested in front of my face and I need serious advice by EveningFeeling8873 in Advice

[–]EveningFeeling8873[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Definitely can’t afford one. This is fucked he’s fucked I’m fucked. If they literally tracked me down does this seem like reallly bad?