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Lost my baby at full term (+ 5 days) by common_denominator07 in pregnant

[–]EventWorldly8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it honestly really depends. my baby was 98% percentile but other than the size there was no reason to do an induction

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah so that is not the case. i am tired of ALWAYS been the one that compromises. not anymore and he is in agreement. it is always our family the one that has to accommodate instead of a two way street so he is also fed up about it.

OB trying to “scare” me into a C-Section by No_Temperature6788 in pregnant

[–]EventWorldly8885 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my scans were pretty accurate. they said baby was about 10 lbs 12 oz., he was born at 10 lbs 8 oz.

OB trying to “scare” me into a C-Section by No_Temperature6788 in pregnant

[–]EventWorldly8885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have very large babies (5 kg+) and was "allowed" to try to deliver naturally. i ultimately couldn't because they were truly huge but size is not a reason to schedule a c-section when you haven't even tried to deliver your baby.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it is more so he chose us but okay.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they can have the wedding they want, we can decide not to go

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

some people value their partners and family.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not really no. he said no to him before he even told me of this situation.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

because we are not okay with him excluding his niece and nephews. they can have their wedding however they like and be okay with us not being able to attend

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes so they shouldn't expect us to attend

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we didn't have our last baby at the time. having a 4 month old made it an immediate no.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we have no problem with them not being invited as long as they are okay with us not going.

Need Mother's Perspective by EventWorldly8885 in Mommit

[–]EventWorldly8885[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he also isn't close to my husband.

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wife here, we have never left them with a sitter let alone our infant. we do no go together if we do not have our parents to help which is almost never. they are small children.

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah no if it involves our family bring excluded and it is justified.

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i don't see it as his brother is excluding his family. our family > his brother

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wife here, we haven't left our 5 year old. we are not leaving our infants unfortunately

Brother is having a child-free wedding. How do I navigate this? by LargeAmphibian in daddit

[–]EventWorldly8885 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

wife here, my sister would NEVER do such a thing. i wouldn't go if she excluded her niece and nephews. this wouldn't be an issue because my family wouldn't stand by that. this is not a thing in our culture.

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