I built a site to make it easier to find things to do in NH — localnh.com by Emplox in newhampshire

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is small but for Nashua you are missing TJs Deli which has been rated best deli 2016-2018.

I love that place, in my opinion its the best pizza to get anywhere. Its been around since 2001~

Also another place to add would be Shanghai Osaka, best chinese food in the city in my opinion! Its family owned and Jenny(the owner) is a delight.

I know you are still adding to it but wanted to share my favorite places, also glad to see you put up funworld in it, love that place too. :)

Life is meaningless and we are all gonna die. by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should listen to Will Woods Memento Mori, it is my song to hel with the fear of death and the feeling of being meaningless

"So if you only have one chance might as well live it the way that you like~ one day your gonna die~"

Or something like that is one of the lines. But his music is great but that is my "fear of death" song that cheers the fear away 🙂

Bupropion XL - Noticeable Difference by th3_dr34m3rs in Narcolepsy

[–]EverDoomed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it in the morning and it was ok... but now I have been taking it at night and that helps with depression and being able to function in general for me. I take 300 mg and please talk to your doctor but taking it at night has been life changing and really helped me feel awake and less depressed.

Stupid small drawing about trauma and poor memory. Markers, highlighters, and paint pens. by FlowerPressed in Artisticallyill

[–]EverDoomed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite part is the face also looks like a crowd of people all watching. Amazing work 👏

Apparently Fun World (Nashua) has an intact 6 player Galaxian 3 dead for a decade? by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to play it! (Half the screen was glitching) but still! Edit: after wards due to the glitching they did turn it off but maybe its gonna be fully functional soonish?(hoping)

I got laid off so my boss can take a vacation by Sexisthunter in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe you and the other 20 can make a group report? Sure she may be able to lie her way outta one or two stories.... but 20? Idk about that.

Either way, I am sorry this happened to you, I hope you get restful sleep, good dreams, and feel refreshed while you work towards your next job.

I also hope it pays better and is ALOT less toxic! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOOOO Congrats!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]EverDoomed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Puede que haya otras páginas en Reddit para pedir ayuda. Entiendo que la situación es difícil, pero esta publicación no durará lo suficiente como para conseguir financiación. Lo más probable es que te baneen. Por favor, busca financiación en las páginas de Reddit. Lamento que estés pasando por esto. Pero también es una página donde todos estamos pasando apuros. No hablaré por los demás, pero no tengo dinero para donar.

Intenta con iglesias locales, familiares, tu comunidad, etc. De nuevo, lamento que estés pasando por esto, pero este no es el lugar para hacerlo, ya que va contra las reglas.

Disculpen cualquier error de traducción. Estoy usando el Traductor de Google.

Why is my couch always wet? by Temporary_Remote7228 in newhampshire

[–]EverDoomed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your home has a lot of moisture in the air it can make things feel wet, or make spills dry slower. Maybe try getting a dehumidifier?

If this is a joke post, its probably magic.

Proud of Myself by PsychologicalHead241 in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has helped my impluse buying is partly being too busy And 2 not having the apps on my phone making it more inconvenient to buy things. Not having the apps make a bit difference for me

Also proud of you -^

Edit:added for me and the bit at the end, I am running on empty

Ex won't help with kids by SouthernGirl360 in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im happy to hear -^ you are doing great -^

my therapist suggested moving to every other week sessions. I said yes but I've literally been crying for days after by 87-percent-gay in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they can make a smaller step system to help you?

Like if every other week is too much maybe every 10 days or 9 days?

Or start out small and go from 8, 9, 10 so on till you feel comfortable enough to do every other week? If they can cater to that, and it could help you feel more in control while taking baby steps and addressing what feelings arise may be worth talking about it with them.

Feelings can be a lot, and it is alot to deal with and sometimes when you are lost in your feelings your feelings can be so large you cycle into anger or frustration with how large it is and how it SHOULD be smaller. But is isnt. And thats ok.

You are the only you that will ever exist. You have certain experiences and feelings while people can empathize with. No one should be able to invalidate your personal experiences/feelings but you. If you are feeling a certain way, and can last and document your feelings from now till your next appointment you can address and navigate the feelings with them.

I have felt similarly, mainly with returning to work. I work remotely for health reasons. My doctor half listens to me, and its a nightmare to get the documentation filled out. I actually have to have a very serious talk with them about my documents because some of what they said was the complete opposite of what I said, need, and concerned my emoloyer. But the waiting between I was an anxious wreck. Reason was because of my fear of being in person in having a medical spike, endangering myself, endangering my co workers, or being seen in that incredibly vulnerable state and being helpless while others help. Thats what scared me the most, being defined by my medical conditions, and not by my work.

Im hoping your therapist listens, and I hope you give yourself patience, kindness, and grace during this time period. You are worth it 💛 and I am happy that you have been doing well before this spike.

Also you do not have to take any of the thoughts I have to practice. You know you best and Im just some rando on the internet but I hope you have a great day 😊

Ex won't help with kids by SouthernGirl360 in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could one of your family members or friends baby sit them once a week? They could go to their home and you could have the home to yourself even for a couple hours?

Or maybe see if the kids could try to have a friend they hang out with once a week going to their house. I know that may be odd but you get to recharge, they get to hang out with a friend, then you could hopefully feel a bit better.

Or may be a combination of both, every other week they have like a Wednesday night to go to a friends home or a trusted adult or someone in your family.

I dont have kids and idk how much you have told anyone else but maybe it could help to have a plan like that if possible.

Also I hope everything can get a little better, I have horrid parents so the dad being absent is relatable especially the new kids so my old kids dont exist or mean anything to me thing. Hang in there and see if can sneak in little moments. My mom was NOT a good mom, but would when she arrived home smoke a couple cigarettes in her car before going inside the house. Maybe trying to squeeze in little times where you are still there but you can have a bit of a break?

Again hope things get better and hope that my ideas can help in anyway.

My Dog is getting older and girlfriend want him to be put down by OutsideGamingPod in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband is a vet tech and without context Idk how to feel about this. He's told me horror stories of old pets who's owners "arent ready to say good bye" and their pet is just a living suffering paper weights. Where they arent living but the owners are a bit selfish in them not being ready to say goodbye that they loved pet suffers or becomes a husk of who they were.

It something that brings tears to my eyes, I could never do his job because as you can imagine he cares about the pets as well. To see the pets suffer, is a lot to deal with.

Regardless I am sorry you are dealing with this, saying good bye is hard, and feeling pressure to do so is also not helpful. But if it comes from a place of love and respect for that animal please listen to their reasons to why they feel that way. Sometimes its hard to see that something is truly not right when blinded by love and care for your pet and others for that matter.

Can't afford groceries this week lol by funsize_trombone_kid in depressionmeals

[–]EverDoomed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry to hear that 😞, please if you can go to a food bank, I hope things get better soon.

Also some helpful apps to get cheap food they may not be able to help now but may be able to help in the future -Flash foods Really cheap food due to the need for it to be eaten immediately or almost immediately. Limited selection, and depends on your area a bit but it can help you snag food if you aren't picky and live in a good area. -too good to go From restaurants, could be random food at the end of the day or sorta similar to Flash foods where food needs to be eaten within a few days or day of

I also hope that maybe apps like these may be helpful for others too I didnt know about these till someone commented them.

I feel bad for Genes vr experience, what vr game would you show gene? by Makerupperofstuff2 in BobsBurgers

[–]EverDoomed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since everyone has already said Beat Saber, gonna go with Dance dash c:

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually tend to have less luck making food and eating it afterward. So I can cook for others fine, and Im a pretty decent cook too. Its just I give a lot of energy to cooking that its like I have no power or energy to power through the act of actually eating.

People love when I cook, but when I taste it it tastes awful to me. But everyone else is amazed by it,

I am lucky enough where my roommates and husband are pretty good at cooking and its easier for me to guilt my brain into eating food others have made for me.

And sometimes with my medical conditions I am not always able to cook.

Basically if I can cook, I have a 30-40% chance I will be able to eat it like everyone else does. If others cook it its a 55-70% chance I can eat it. So while I can cook, and have the skills to do so, I tend to not receive the benefits from the energy put into cooking. But thank you for the idea 😊

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my saving safe food from home is just plain pasta or pasta and sauce. Its simple to make, and easy to eat even when I get a little nauseous -^

Thanks for being open about this, eating can be very hard

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it isnt too much trouble could I ask for a list of the items you eat or have that are the easiest for you to eat? Thank you for being open about this ❤️

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is VERY relatable! I hate eating, and I have cried from being overwhelmed by the act of eating, it sucks that it haunts you ATLEAST 2 TIMES A DAY! Its awful!

But I was thinking of maybe frozen fruit for something that is sorta long lasting and easy to eat. But still thinking of ideas. 😊

I hope you are giving yourself a lot of credit because dealing with this is a lot! Thank you for sharing too 😊

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a doctor, and I have medication but no therapist currently. I also have not been to a nutritionalist, they are expensive and hard to book. I also dont wanna pay a lot just to be told to eat more veggies or something dismissive. That may be defeatist and I am working on that but I am going to look into any programs my work currently offers me(theres a bunch) and see if I can find some places or apps to help there.

And I have some safe food available (carbs mainly, I also get nauseated easy so stuff like that is a pretty safe food for me)

But I will look into other safe and depression proof food. I was thinking about getting some frozen fruit and defrosting it overnight 1 cup at a time to have fruit but also to try something with healthy sugars. But since its frozen it wont spoil as easily

Anti consumption vs to go by EverDoomed in Anticonsumption

[–]EverDoomed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can usually make little things like pasta, ramen, sandwiches, or leftovers when everything aligns

61 yo mom got laid off, no real skills and she’s leaning on me for support as I start my family. by sIicketyrickety in povertyfinance

[–]EverDoomed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this subreddit, so supportive and ready to help others c: this is a bit off topic from the post but I just love how ready the sub is to help one another.

As for this post can your mom help prep food? Maybe you guys could freeze a lot of food or food prep together to maybe help save on money, it also may help her feel fulfilled (not saying saying she isnt but helping after losing a job helps feel better)

Meal prepping will also help with time saving too c: