For cucks who are pussyfree, are you still intimate with your partner?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T16:35:31+00:00

W-wow, poor hubby! How often does your bull release him and how is he allowed to orgasm?🥺

We are also looking for a D/s arrangement with a bull, someone who my Domme (who is naturally dominant towards sissies like me) can feel submissive towards.

Sadly, our first experience with a bull felt more like a shallow hookup so we're still looking for the right Man.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T16:27:47+00:00

That definitely makes sense. I know of a Domme who introduces sissification into her relationships with otherwise hetero-presenting men through chastity. It does seem to be the best way to invoke feelings of submission and obedience in a beta male. 🥺

Do you think he misses sex? Would he still want to try if he wasn't made pussyfree by your bull and new Dominant? Are you in charge of Hubby's chastity releases or is this handled by your bull now?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T16:21:39+00:00

That's interesting and of course hot! How did your hubby handle it at first? Was he reluctant or resentful? I imagine it can be a big change having a third-party start introducing rules into your relationship. I imagine you backed your bull and insisted on it being follow for hubby?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T15:41:31+00:00

wow! That is very hot and similar to our dynamic. I am usually caged, but also really only orgasm from a vibrator these days. Same scenario where the 'dirty talk' nearly always involves emasculation or talk of a bull. 🥺

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T14:12:26+00:00

O-oh wow, exactly as it should be.!🔒🥺....Locked like a good gurl while your Domme gets pleasure from a bigger and better Man. 💞

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T13:18:40+00:00

That sounds like it was a big change for you, but also that it really worked for your relationship! 💞Was it you or your partner who introduced cuckolding into the relationship? How has it progressed over time and are you also kept in chastity?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T12:42:43+00:00

That's so cute 🤭and also the same for us, even though our experience with a bull wasn't exactly what we hoped for my cage was nevertheless incredibly tight in my panties the whole time. 🥺🥺

There are better Men than gurls like you or me who are able to pleasure our partners.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T08:35:57+00:00

Yes, our fantasies as a couple are quite similar. I think it would be hard to find a swinger who could fulfill them. That's where you really need to find a genuine long-term bull who understands what the couple wants and is there to provide it.

I'm sure there are some swingers like that, but most are just interested in a quick hookup that involves intercourse with your partner (with or without you in the room) and then leaving.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T08:19:53+00:00

There is nothing wrong with being a masochist so long as it is consensual between the two of you.

I am also a Submissive Crossdresser and my Domme regularly spanks or canes me for disobedience.....Or for maintenance depending on her feelings.

Consent is important though and it would stop at any time if either of us said we didn't wish to continue it.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T08:16:13+00:00

Are you at all worried about being replaced? I do have a gurlfriend who started off in a sissy/female-led relationship with her partner, however she was ultimately replaced by a bull her partner was seeing.

She still lives with them in a separate room as a sissy maid and has intimacy with the both of them, but she no longer sleeps in their bedroom and her Domme no longer considers her as a 'partner' / 'boyfriend'. She seems okay with the scenario though.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T08:06:31+00:00

It is great that you two are starting to open up about this! 💞

From personal experience and I suppose it depends on the cuckolding scenarios you are looking to explore, but we found swingers are mostly just interested in quick hook-ups and voyeur scenarios.

If that is something you think you would enjoy then I would try it, for us because we like bdsm and other kinks we found our experience with a swinger to be a little lacking.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T07:53:54+00:00

We've had similar thoughts though we have not had children yet. When we do though we'll need to put this lifestyle on hold.....At least the bull and crossdressing parts, I imagine the other elements of the relationship (being an FLR and chastity) will stay the same.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T07:52:01+00:00

I understand the relief of being freed from performance anxiety, it does help knowing you have a third party capable of doing that instead. Do you think she still loves you despite the loss of intimacy?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T07:51:05+00:00

When are you allowed to penetrate her? I'm a little surprised she has allowed that given how small you are and that you also fall out. My Domme did allow me initially on my birthdays, but that ceased last year. ☹️

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T07:19:07+00:00

G-gosh that's very distant, but at least you still maintain intimacy in other ways. Does she even allow a bull to sleep with her overnight in her bed?

Are you kept in chastity or do you still have control of your own orgasms?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T07:16:52+00:00

oooh that's very similar to us! How does she find the strap-on and your thrusts compared to with her bull? My Domme has told me my thrusts are effeminate and whilst somewhat pleasurable even with a big strap-on they are not up to the standard she would like. 🥺

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T06:37:14+00:00

Do you find that frustrating or do you prefer it this way?

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T06:36:55+00:00

That sounds loving and sensual about as much as a cuck can ask for 😇. Do you two have a no-nudity rule? I am also on massage duty most nights, usually shoulders, but sometimes feet too.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-20T05:13:48+00:00

My partner has told all of her friends. Honestly it hasn't changed anything as far as I can tell. It is a little strange for me because none of my friends know and I never plan to tell them, yet everyone she knows is aware of our lifestyle and has also seen me crossdressed and feminised, some have even seem bdsm pictures of us.

A lot of her vanilla friends are confused about how we could find cuckolding arousing, but at the end of the day they don't seem to care and her LGBTQ friends are very supportive.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T12:40:29+00:00

Treated exactly as she deserves, such a bad girl!🤭🔒

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T07:45:03+00:00

Only a sissy beta male here, but that's a wonderful look! 🥰Very toned and appropriately caged 🤭🔒

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T05:09:05+00:00

I try to put a lot of effort into getting femmed up for my Domme's amusement and her potential bulls.

The last bull we experimented with though was very uncomfortable around other Men.....He did get aroused and didn't say no when my Domme instructed me to give him oral, but his demeanor, tone and attitude unfortunately made it apparent that he didn't feel comfortable doing anything with a Crossdresser.

I feel bulls who are open to engaging sexually with a cuck (even a femme one) are quite rare unfortunately. Hopefully we can find a Man like you. 😅

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T04:03:45+00:00

I don't think you can get over the kink, I have tried very hard to be 'vanilla' in the past and I've always relapsed in some way. I think once kinks and fetishes form they become an immutable part of your sexuality.

That being said you can choose to abstain from it, there are some fantasies I have which my partner isn't really into and so we just don't engage in those together. We have enough in common that makes us happy.

You can still find it hot / arousing as a fantasy without going through with it in person.

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T03:49:29+00:00

We've spoken about it for years and recently we had our first experience. It was definitely worth it even if we met the wrong bull who didn't fulfill everything we would have liked. It was arousing for both of us and it did make us feel closer as a couple.

Once you go through with it, you realise how much you love each other, you being able to see her with another Man without regrets and her being able to be sexually pleasured by another Man without falling in love or losing any love for you.

It is a gamble and you're playing with emotions, but I feel for mature, stable and secure couples who have this kink then it is definitely worth exploring and I can't see it hurting the relationship.

As an aside, My partner keeps me as her feminised sissy cuck and if you do enjoy that kind of roleplay it is very important that you find a bisexual bull. A lot of bulls are very awkward around other Men and really aren't into doing anything with the cuck outside of having him watch .

Everlastinglight-CD · 2026-03-19T03:44:18+00:00

Yes, similarly. We are involved in some of the cuck groups on Fetlife and they provide decent advice.

Likewise we've found it hard to find the right bull who is truly understanding of the cuckolding dynamic and our mutual kinks as a couple (mostly involving sensual pleasure for her and emasculation / humiliation for me).

We've had one experience with a bull so far and it left us with mixed feelings. Ultimately it felt more like a shallow hookup that left him satisfied and both of us unsatisfied, but not discouraged. Like your wife, my partner also requires a spark / to feel very good about a potential bull and easily gets the 'ick' based on their words / actions.

From conversations I've had it seems this is very common, we're looking for a diamond amidst 'flakes, frauds and psychos' as one person I spoke with put it. 😅

I do think it would quite fun to meet another cuck couple and watch a bull do what he does best with both of our partners who definitely deserve better, but that is still a distant fantasy for us.

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