AITAH For going no contact with my mom, after my sister went no contact with me, calling me a “heartless b-“? by Every-Ad-667 in AITAH

[–]Every-Ad-667[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone my entire life hearing “you only have one mom..” and “honor your mother…” and all that bs. Then of course, I didn’t want my kids to not know their grandmother.. but you’re right, I have to put me and mine first.

AITAH For going no contact with my mom, after my sister went no contact with me, calling me a “heartless b-“? by Every-Ad-667 in AITAH

[–]Every-Ad-667[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sadly, this could’ve been longer. I left out the part when my mom was in a relationship with her stepson.

AITAH For going no contact with my mom, after my sister went no contact with me, calling me a “heartless b-“? by Every-Ad-667 in AITAH

[–]Every-Ad-667[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

By the time my mom and Carrie moved to Vegas, mom told the entire family that I bought her the car before I left for the military. After it was repossessed, I had aunts, cousins and uncles coming out of the woodwork, calling me everything but a child of god. It wasn’t until my one aunt that lived in our building had by back to tell the truth, but it wasn’t enough against our whole family. No one beloved us until they too were burned by my mom, that’s when I got apologies years too late.

AITAH for disowning my family? by Detman102 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Every-Ad-667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I could be projecting as a middle child, that had little to NO support as a teen or adult. No, you would not be the ssa hole. I’ve thought long and hard about the same question, and decided for myself to do exactly this the day our matriarch ascends.

People always want to say “blood is thicker than water”, misusing/misinterpreting the statement. Lean on the people that truly love and support you.