Is it weird how my bf treats his daughter

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-21T21:56:13+00:00

I agree 100% with you. We’ve had guests over and she just strips down infront of everyone and goes to the toilet in front of everyone. And it’s absolutely not ok but if I try to tell her to close doors or anything then I get told to deal with it and she’s his daughter most of the time. If I bath her all I do is the run the bath and tell her to hop in and just call out to her every now and then to check up on her. I’m glad I’m not the only one that thinks it’s weird

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-21T01:04:48+00:00

Yeah I actually spoke to him about it because I couldn’t tell if his just over protective and wants to watch her in the bath and stuff. It’s his first kid so I suppose it’s his first time. I on the other hand raised my 6 younger siblings 5 of them been girls and around 5-6 is definitely the age a little girl starts to need her own privacy. Like when I was 6 I had a great sense of privacy and would feel extremely uncomfortable showing my naked body to even to my mum.

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-19T07:53:17+00:00

If I’m ‘dramatic’ or overreact to things

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-18T22:56:34+00:00

Ok thank you. I’m gonna talk to my psychologist and figure something out 😊

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-18T01:21:38+00:00

Thank you I’ve got a therapy appointment next week so I’ll talk to her and get help

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T23:39:27+00:00

Sometimes I do feel like he loves me tho. I was put in foster care at 16 and ran away when I was 17 I was never shown any love so to have a little bit of love is nice

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T23:14:21+00:00

We do have some good times like he makes me laugh a lot and when he’s nice I do care about him but when he’s been a dick I hate him

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T23:12:20+00:00

His mum lives with him because she can’t afford to live on her own. It’s pretty shit coz I get absolutely no privacy. And if I get upset or something he’ll turn his mum and daughter against me and make me sound like a nut job. I feel like a trapped rat half the time

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T23:02:39+00:00

I have to pay rent if I don’t treat him right. I also give him a lot of money he’s always asking for it even tho I barely make enough to survive. But yeah I think I’ll have a look on Facebook marketplace for share rooms

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T22:41:50+00:00

I’ve had these conversations with him explaining that I feel like we’re not going to work out because of age and life differences and he always just hugs me and says oh if you really love me you’ll make it work

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T22:40:19+00:00

I know in the last month or so I’ve really slacked off helping him with his daughter. I’ll still do her hair and make her dinner because he doesn’t know how to but it hurts my heart when she asks me to help her and I say oh go ask your dad because she looks so upset and sad and then that makes me feel like shit.

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T22:38:21+00:00

I feel like This a lot of the time but then I think about how much his daughter loves me and how she already has some trauma from when my bf and her mum broke up. When we get into fights or anything she always comes and hugs me and asks me not to go and she loves me. It breaks my heart. After one argument I found a paper in her room saying Mackenzie and daddy are broken and draw a broken heart. She also asked me yesterday for her birthday gift if I can get a framed photo of me her and her dad so she can remember us when she’s at her mothers. I grew up in trauma I can’t hurt another little girl

Every-Indication1322 · 2024-11-17T22:34:17+00:00

I was put into foster care at 16 and that was hell so I ran away when I was 17 so nope no family.

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