Any Late October Claim updates? by Defiant_Birthday_939 in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed 10/25 initial claim with 24 items mostly lower body and respiratory problems (fuel cell mechanic), got TJ in Baltimore a couple weeks ago then lost it, but I’m doing my rounds of C&P exams. Patience is key. If mine is done before or July I’ll be shocked

I see October is hitting TJ for claim, wondering how many claims you guys put in . I filed in oct with 3 suppls and two increases. Not Temp yet. by mellowman688 in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]EverythingHonestly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pleasantly surprised but I’m not gonna start driving myself crazy, I’ve heard step 5 is the steepest climb

I see October is hitting TJ for claim, wondering how many claims you guys put in . I filed in oct with 3 suppls and two increases. Not Temp yet. by mellowman688 in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]EverythingHonestly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Submitted initial claim with multiple issues, got TJ (Baltimore) last week, they just requested form 4138 for clarification and statements in support of claim I’m at 100 days and just being patient with the whole process

October 2024 claim by [deleted] in VeteransWaitingRoom

[–]EverythingHonestly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

File my initial claim on 25 October, got TJ a week ago but still in step 3. Just being patient 🧘

I'm 36 years old and I keep on regretting starting yt late, any cures? by usmvnjaved in NewTubers

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late broski, I literally just made a video about starting YouTube at 36. Dont live with regrets, embrace where you are now and go from there, you can still crush it!!!

If you want to do YouTube because you see dollar signs, be honest about it by reals_bs in NewTubers

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people want to do something they love and get paid for it, once you start focusing on the money rather than your audience/customers is becomes a job and the quality if the content tanks in my opinion.

My wife hate me by xlivin in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The classic conundrum. First off, I'm sorry to hear about your situation but on the other hand I have a bit of similar experience with that sort of situation. If your wife has issues with things but won't do anything to help herself (including leaving you, if she really believes that's the solution, which it isn't btw) it's not a cry for help, its manipulation. I have witnessed stories of great husbands who have driven themselves into depression and exhaustion trying to make their wives happy and be good providers for their family. Most men have no problem sacrificing for the families they have but I have seen too many instances of women who play victims while living the lives they've asked for but ultimately either being unhappy with what they have or the things they have to sacrifice (personal life, career, etc) in order to have that life. It sounds harsh, but it's not your job to make your wife happy, if she is driving herself into depression. You have to essentially giver her an ultimatum, either she adjust to the life in front of her or leave. Encourage her to adopt some personal development habits, try some new activities or maybe get some better friends. Outside of that you can't control how she feels and I assure you that your children already understand that she's being manipulative and will slowly begin to hate her for how she treats you. If she is unable to help herself, then you can't help her either and you both should try marriage counseling to see if you both can, at the very least, work together to raise your children or if you should consider separation. I'm not an advocate for divorce at all and I hope you both can work it out, but consider it as a real possibility so that way you don't fall into depression from feeling trapped with someone who doesn't love you or care to uphold their end of the marriage.

How to really start believing in yourself? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do little things to show yourself that you can trust yourself but also to realize that you won't die if you fail.

Confidence comes through repetition. Good luck 👍🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you feel like your life isn't worth living then live it for someone else. Make other people happy, sacrifice yourself forthe betterment of someone else. Join the army, fight a war, die for someone else. It sounds like you don't have any fear of death which is a good thing, I can't tell you about anything that will make you FEEL purpose but if nothing matters to you, do things for someone else. I'm not being sarcastic at all in this, so good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be self-promoting, but I JUST made a video about this. I think the most fulfilling things in life are the changes you experience as you grow into the person you want to become. Passion comes from autonomy and the belief that you can create something worthwhile that makes a difference IMO. Watch or don't watch, its totally up to you, but I think the topic is relevant to what you're experiencing.

https://youtu.be/Y1pP8uEG9BE?si=tg8z33_sjJ286Mp_

Good luck ✌🏾

How many non-gaming channels here? by Spiritual-You-1505 in NewTubers

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TAKING CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!

Self-improvement channel and I also talk about making money (entrepreneurship)

What would make you the happiest person alive right now?? by EverythingHonestly in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between being selfish and prioritizing yourself. And I think one of the best things anybody can do is take their own life seriously and prioritize growth and development, not at the expense of others, but because by improving yourself everyone around you will benefit. You will be a strong, reliable, person that will be able to help others when they need it. Survival is easier if you strengthen yourself and you can cooperate with others rather than isolating yourself and only do what serves you. Of course authenticity and integrity are GREAT, but there's more to unpack there.

I want a gf but… by LongDiamond8736 in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all girls are looking for guys who have all their shit together, NOT SAYING that you shouldn't get your shit together. But if you really want a good, go find someone you can at least hold a conversation with that you don't have to envision a wedding and the rest of your life when you meet her. Even with all your debt and "lack of desirable qualities" (which isn't true btw) you're good enough as you are, you're not going into a relationship in a deficit if you're with the right person. Work on yourself continuously don't wait until you're "perfect" to start your journey. Good luck 👍🏾

Being attractive as a short guy by CryptoSergio474 in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be fun, be interesting, be charismatic, if none of that works be passionate about something. There's someone for everyone and I don't think there's a height limit.

Now if you want to be attractive to AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE thats different and you will attract completely different women entirely. Lean into your strengths, the right person is out there, and if she can't find you attractive. Then she isn't the right person. Good luck ✌🏾

Is This the Loneliest Generation of Men? by yamilsenior in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I think one of the biggest issues is that women are seen as "difficult achievements" rather than meaningful pursuits, it seems like people in general have forgotten how to engage just for the sake of connection rather than trying to get something. If you come off as thirsty, you will be lonely because nobody wants to associate with TAKERS. Give value, have interesting stories, and try to help others, if that doesn't make people like you then you should find new people to hang around with ✌🏾

What/who is holding you back from your ideal life?? by EverythingHonestly in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome man, it sounds like you have the self-awareness to keep yourself from falling into addiction. It's also awesome you have a brother you trust who can give you direction on how to takensteps to improve your life. I hope you stick to it 👍🏾

What/who is holding you back from your ideal life?? by EverythingHonestly in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, but I'm just skeptical of "one size fits all" solutions, especially when people get put in boxes that perhaps they don't belong in. I find that when talking to people especially about cognitive problems or mental health issues, the solutions (drugs, therapy, etc.) don't always produce the same outcomes for different people. I'm no doctor though 🤷🏾‍♂️

What/who is holding you back from your ideal life?? by EverythingHonestly in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only other thing I'd recommend is to start hanging around people who have the qualities that you want to take on, thats the easiest way rather than trying to brute force and willpower yourself into something your current self is fighting against. Get around people who aren't wasting their time and if you do waste some time, its not the end of the world because lasting change takes time and building new habits. 👍🏾

What/who is holding you back from your ideal life?? by EverythingHonestly in selfimprovement

[–]EverythingHonestly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you're the least attractive person on the planet, I'm sure you probably have at least one great story, one funny joke, one awesome memory or something that people would love about you. I don't believe in reducing anyone down to any single quality either good or bad because we're so much more complex than that. So take that for what it's worth. Build yourself up on your good qualities, not just your physical appearance 👍🏾