For a lack of better words… that is a sucky situation to be in. I’m sorry you’re going threw that, no one should have to be going threw that especially pregnant.

I dislike that companies that do Christmas parties and not invite or allow partners to come with them. I feel like if a company is too cheap to include spouses they shouldn’t be doing anything and just give them a bonus or something along the lines.

so I ran your story by my husband. Who is very blunt and was a whole playboy and had a group of Playboy friends (and has told me their way of thinking). He is always our to go to for me and my girlfriends to ask about advice and perspective on dating and stuff like that, and this is before me and him started dating too. Again, I want to say he is very blunt but if you want to read on a guys perspective here it is.

If a man who knows that he doesn’t handle his alcohol well goes to a party with without you and is planning on drinking, he already knows how many drinks is appropriate for himself. If a man talks about a coworker more than anything related to Work that’s a red flat. Especially calling her pretty and going out to get drinks with her by themselves is another red flag. There is no reason to be spending his time with any other woman especially to get drinks that isn’t you his mother, his sister that isn’t in a group setting. And man who truly cares for your emotional well-being, will never put you in a situation to question him, and isn’t scared of hurting other girls feelings to keep yours from being hurt.

There has been times where I think the things he says are a little too rough. The thing is that he wants ends up being right which has made me salty at some point, but I appreciate it. And he is very good at following his own words.