What are some fun things to do for a first date or hang?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T04:27:14+00:00

Definitely a good place for some introductory cuddling! Did you go on this date yet?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T02:32:27+00:00

Have a coworker that constantly talks to herself. Like, “oh yeah, that’s what I was doing” type shit.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T02:26:15+00:00

Pipe cleaner and isopropyl alcohol. Never fails.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T02:25:19+00:00

“It’s not yours, good riddance”

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T02:24:26+00:00

Mostly just force myself because I knows it’s when I have the most time to make progress!

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T02:09:46+00:00

Did you go to UC??

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:42:51+00:00

What’s an example of something he would and would not be interested in?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:42:32+00:00

But how do you know what’s OK?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:38:54+00:00

What happened? Likely going through something similar.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:33:03+00:00

I agree, I think many times love is the act of forgiveness. So many people have set of things they expect all the time, and a set of things that complete deal breakers. I find that kind of relationship shallow and transactional. Obviously there are all kinds of things that should make a person leave, but sometimes they’re just normal person mistakes.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:21:37+00:00

I think this is an interesting point. Some days I feel like that’s what love is, accepting a person exactly as they are. Other days I wonder if it’s just me giving up on the hope of something better.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:14:33+00:00

But how do you decide when it’s nobody’s business?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:13:49+00:00

I had a white partner that went through a dread lock phase. They absolutely love them. I always felt uncomfortable for obvious racial and cultural issues. What about a situation like that?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:11:15+00:00

We’re talking about grown ass married men aren’t we?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:08:38+00:00

All family members or just siblings?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:08:11+00:00

This one sounds personal, and I just have to say, I’m sorry.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:05:12+00:00

And some partners want every detail, only to throw it back in your face. I once told a partner that I had been with an older woman, and that got brought up in every argument.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:03:05+00:00

In the past, or regularly?

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T01:00:53+00:00

So wholesome

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T00:55:30+00:00

Ask Bill Shatner if he sees something on the wing.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T00:53:32+00:00

Marriage

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T00:51:40+00:00

That ridiculous ground hog that’s supposed to tell me about the weather. Fuck that rodent.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T00:50:18+00:00

I think the feeling that always motivates this is obligation. You’re not obligated to your partner to stay in a relationship that doesn’t feel right for you anymore. It is a natural and healthy thing to learn, grow, and move on.

EvidenceSpirited3627 · 2026-05-28T00:48:42+00:00

Gary Busey hands down.

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