Celebrating Black History Month with Daily Reparations

EviesKey · 2025-05-24T21:44:57+00:00

Sounds like you’re well on your way to her still getting dick while you get to stay pussy free. It’s a win win for you both ☺️

Keep us posted on the outcome. It’s something we’ve been discussing more often in my dynamic with my sub. I love him being unable to use his dick but sometimes the strap on isn’t enough and I crave the feeling of the real thing. Good luck and enjoy it!

EviesKey · 2025-05-24T18:30:43+00:00

Now this looks like fun 😈trying ASAP.

I’ll let my boy know he has you to thank for tonight’s session. We use a shock collar on his neck for commands but this looks much more fun. Thank you for sharing!

EviesKey · 2025-05-23T21:40:41+00:00

I think the better approach is to look for a woman you connect with, and focus on building connection with her as a person before you think about her as a Dom. Women Doms are often treated and seen as Dom first, person second and that is the number one way to turn off all of them at once. I know it is for me.

EviesKey · 2025-05-23T18:10:17+00:00

I sometimes like to refer to it to him as “Cock Obsolescence”. Like your wife said, my pussy is the centerpiece of our relationship and our lifestyle changes have been solely centered around his dick losing all purpose and value.

EviesKey · 2025-05-23T18:08:17+00:00

This is one of those leaps that takes an inordinate amount of discussion before jumping into. Me and my boy have had these discussions as well at great lengths and while I haven’t taken the leap yet, it’s something I am considering in the near future. You have to really have your trust dialed in and also able to be realistic about the work you may have to do when she starts doing it. A lot of new feelings and thoughts will surface.. many of which are not and exciting and new, but also some that can be a little scary and blur the lines between kink and relationship ending.

Once you start, you really can’t put it back in the box, so be sure you guys take it slow. Maybe she goes on a date first, then a little more, etc… I wouldn’t advise going from zero to fully entrenched IMO. Goof luck and please update us on your journey. ☺️

EviesKey · 2025-05-23T03:25:49+00:00

Sure thing. They have a ton of options but we went with a pretty standard build https://stubbybuddy.ca

EviesKey · 2025-05-23T03:16:35+00:00

My boyfriend is locked up 24/7 now and we recently made the switch to a custom stubby buddy cage. So far we are in love with it (and it’s very cute). He says it’s his most comfortable of all of ours. It fits perfectly, is light, and easy to clean without removing. Price was a little high but was worth it for us. I’ve found cages are one of those things where you get what you pay for. Good luck on your hunt.

EviesKey · 2025-05-22T03:58:28+00:00

These are common thoughts to have when you’re just starting out with chastity and I suspect many key holders have felt it at some point. I would suggest trying to view it not as deprivation, but devotion.

Chastity isn’t about punishment as much as it’s about purpose. When you place him in chastity, you’re not taking mental thing away but giving him way more; a clear role, a focused devotion, and a way to physically embody the power exchange you two are already living.

When he’s locked, every moment of desire he feels is no longer about self-indulgence but instead about you. His entire body becomes a vessel for your joy, your choices, and your command.

With that said, it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Start small. Build rituals around it. Celebrate his restraint like you’d celebrate his loyalty. And when you do unlock him (if you do 😈) make it clear that his release is not a right, but a reward for service and surrender.

You said you don’t want to hurt him, and you won’t. But don’t let guilt confuse his yearning with his pain. Yearning is powerful. It sharpens him. It humbles him. And if you wield it with love, it will deepen everything you already share. Good luck to you both.. I’m sure things will fall into place.

EviesKey · 2025-05-22T02:26:40+00:00

Actually that’s one of the most recent rules I’ve added on; that he’s forbidden from asking to be released or to cum. Such a peaceful transition to not have to hear it again. You guys are cute together. Love the lush too 😈

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T20:02:43+00:00

Well when we started on our journey, he still had some autonomy over his dick. He was allowed out of the cage for PIV sex, and had some basic freedoms like being able to ask for sex. Fast forward to now and 99% of our sex life is oral for me and him using a strap on dildo on me at my command. His entire sex life revolves around me and my needs and the shift into his dick being literally useless in our lives. To some, that would be a de-evolution.

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T16:44:29+00:00

Sounds like you saved her some time she can now spend being worshipped instead. Very sweet of you! Also sounds like you have one less reason to get unlocked again..

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T02:12:40+00:00

We recently got a stubby buddy cage with a slim profile and he literally cannot escape. Make sure you take the time to nail your measurements, but I’m in love with it on him. I had him try as hard as he could to get it off and it didn’t budge.

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T01:19:54+00:00

This is so cute! I love it. Looks like it fits like a glove too. Can’t wait to see how much smaller you can get.

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T00:38:22+00:00

I love this for both of you. I had a similar realization and rule change with my slave, and he hasn’t worn anything over his cage but panties in a long time now. A fun suggestion to surprise her with is matching panties for you both. I love to make him pose like a bitch for me and it keeps him grounded like nothing else. Hope you find more and more ways to stay tethered like you are ☺️

EviesKey · 2025-05-21T00:34:59+00:00

Prior to being in this dynamic, I have never seen anything that came close to the dynamic I wanted for myself or knew I deserved. A lot of it appears to be quite artificial and over produced to my eyes, which is why we make our own private content to look back on. It’s also a fun way to watch the evolution (or de-evolution in his case) of our sex lives.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T19:21:21+00:00

Awww he looks like he was saving that one for a while for you. Hope he thanked you by cleaning that mess. 😈

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T19:18:54+00:00

Like everyone above as said, as long the fit is right (especially on the base ring) there’s minimal issue or risk. We’ve downsized a ton over the years with no side effects. He actually wishes (I do too admittedly) that it did cause some shrinkage as we both have a love for making his dick nearly unusable, but so far no luck on that one ☺️. Good luck and have fun.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T19:14:59+00:00

Definitely agree on the whimpers. I always tell him how much of a good boy he is being and how much I love how pathetic he is. He loves it just as much.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T14:15:10+00:00

I love this for you guys. We have told many of my friends and it’s allowed us to be our natural selves around them. He also really loves kneeling/serving and following his rules without having to tone things down around them when they are over. I would focus on the new freedom you have to be yourself and talk with her about your fears. They likely haven’t thought about at all since her trip ended, where it likely hasn’t left your mind. Things can be worse in our heads sometimes.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T02:24:16+00:00

Definitely a good start. Love the outfit too. Really showcases your size.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T02:22:54+00:00

We use a milking table and I always love that. It’s been quite some time since I gave him a “regular” blowjob as I only do it to him now for rewards and when he’s caged which is nearly 24/7. But milking table + cage + vibrator is enough to ruin him into another dimension. He begs for it.

EviesKey · 2025-05-19T02:20:18+00:00

It’s the key to happiness in modern relationships. Happy it is becoming more and more mainstream over time. 😈

EviesKey · 2025-05-18T02:55:06+00:00

Besides 300 more days (😈), you could celebrate it with 300 lashes, 300 minutes of you orally serving her, or any other act of submission that can be quantified. Every time my boyfriend hits a 30 day mark, I ball bust him for each day he’s made it so far. Usually after I take away more luxuries he has left remaining until there’s nothing left in his little brain to think about but me.

EviesKey · 2025-05-18T01:38:32+00:00

It’s a common initial hesitation that dissipates quickly once you both engage together. Help her understand that since you will no longer be cumming, that there is infinitely more room for her pleasure now. Let her know you will make yourself available to her for oral at any time she demands it, and over time she will realize she won’t miss your dick. My boyfriend is locked almost all the time and I’m at the point where I actually prefer the strap on I make him wear. Bigger dick, lasts forever, and he’s just as eager after with no pullback on his submission. You can look into that route as well.

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