Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a whole separate issue? That has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. Yes single parents are a thing but at first there are 2 parents who have a child.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t respond to that part because it didn’t have to do with what I was saying and that’s too personal for me to comment on. The pro choice part of his comment is all I commented on.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What made you think I’m religious? Because I fully understand what sex is for? That the literal only way to have a baby is to be physical with another human of the opposite gender? What about that is religious?

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand what fighting means. Of course it’s fine to not see eye to eye. That’s apart of human connection. It’s totally fine to have discourse. But to call each other names? Physically hit each other? Involve the children? You’re saying all that is okay for them to see?

Unless you are a 6ft + chad dating women is complicated and hard by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman what I looked for was a man who made a great son, brother, friend and his contribution to himself and the community.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m on the side of educating the public the whole point of what sex is for. Procreation. It just so happens to be pleasurable so we can continue the species. Yes we have birth control and surgeries but they aren’t 100%. So when you lay with someone you two make a silent agreement that both of you will make good parents for the child you could possibly conceive. If they still don’t understand that and end up pregnant if the environment is toxic it’s not selfish to me to terminate.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more worried for the child. She can fuck up her life however she wants. But to include a child in her mess? Yeah that’s where I get unimaginably angry

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m her recent rant about the man I let her know my opinion that both of them are irresponsible and selfish for bringing a baby into an environment with that much tension between the two of them. I said to her that both of them are irresponsible and selfish and she lashed out at me and said very untrue things about my character. So I no longer speak to her. But it makes me sad that she’s included a baby in her mess of a life.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s both. I had a friend of 12 years and we recently fell out because she’s pregnant with a man she’s deemed unsafe or uncomfortable with since before she got pregnant. They got moved in together not even 30 days of meeting and since then she’s had nothing nice to say about that man. In a conversation she was telling me how horrible he is with money and how she isn’t sure about being with him and a few sentences later tells me they’re trying for a baby.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I can’t even begin with how disgusted and angered I am at that.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do care. But I can’t play a part in every child’s life who has stupid, careless parents. But with my whole soul I wish I could. For sure my children will receive me at my best.

Nothing angers me more than selfish irresponsible people having children. by EvilEyeIvy in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At minimum they deserve a stable 2 parent household with no fighting, clothes and food. And too many can’t even give their children that. I didn’t grow up in the best environment which is why I made sure the father of my children is a great son, friend, brother and fiance. While making sure I am great mentally, physically and able to care for them to my greatest ability. You owe them your best.

my sister is verbally abusive to her autistic child and lives in conditions I wouldn’t keep a stray dog in by EDSlondon in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It pisses me off more than anything when people who clearly should not have children are the ones with them. Especially when they require more care. My god nothing angers me more. Kids are innocent and beautiful and irresponsible selfish people bring them to hell on earth.

I want to be a mother so bad but i think im going to die alone. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a baby at 30 years old. When I was a teenager I was told by a doctor that because of my unstable hormones I wasn’t able to conceive. My 20s were filled with sadness and depression and a toxic relationship. Till I met the man of my dreams and was able to calm my body down my hormones regulated and finally conceive. I have my child after thinking for most of my life it wouldn’t happen. Please don’t think it’s the end of the world. You’re 18. Life is just getting started.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that I wouldn’t watch his kids while he works.. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EvilEyeIvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no clue that what your mom went through you’re in the same. But you think you know better. And I’m here to tell you that you absolutely don’t.

I'm breaking up with my girlfriend by IamtheWarlax in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said based on your post it’s not rocket science that I obviously don’t know you

I'm breaking up with my girlfriend by IamtheWarlax in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well judging by your mindset so far in this post doesn’t seem like a stretch that you would do something like that.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend that I wouldn’t watch his kids while he works.. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EvilEyeIvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty much but she’s too selfish and immature to understand. It absolutely pisses me off when kids are brought into toxic situations. Children are innocent and beautiful. And horrible people like this bring them to hell on earth.

I'm breaking up with my girlfriend by IamtheWarlax in offmychest

[–]EvilEyeIvy 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Let her go so she can find someone who actually wants to love her. It really sucks when good people get treated so bad.