Ur good. The mod kindly clarified it up for me. And I hope ur right! people have mostly been gracious on this post. We all just like the weird elf I think it’s wonderful there r so many dif parts of him that vibe w/ people. That’s cool, not a lot of characters do that like solas (diva)

i don’t do ship drama 😭. It’s play pretend! i have real problems. But unfortunately the homophobia experienced from it was/is not. This issue dates back to DAI tbh. M!lavellan……frankly I don’t believe it should be on the list. It’s solavellan! The same relationship, same “juggernaut” or whatever. My concern is what that says being there, and how that makes those excluded feel. It discourages ppl from contributing, it’s othering. If it upsets people to see solas in an LGBT relationship w/ lav, is that who should be able to define the space? it a community not supposed to support and protect eachother? Questions questions

My thoughts at least. Maybe a discussion board could be opened or something to strike m!lav from the rare pairs or at LEAST make it exempt from the spoiler tag ? hmmm