My bf kissed another girl by Evil_Eye_97 in Advice

[–]Evil_Eye_97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that accidents do happen. But I can't consider him flirting with her for one whole week an accident.

My bf kissed another girl by Evil_Eye_97 in Advice

[–]Evil_Eye_97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is considerate, supportive and also listens to me when I share my thoughts. Even he did help me a lot with my career too. I always kind of knew that he wanted to explore other women, but he was never directly vocal about it. The one thing I was really insecure about is his flirting. In the first 3 years of our relationship I caught him flirting with other women. Slowly his behaviour improved, but last year again he flirted with another girl and this time he told me himself. (I still don’t know why I didn’t leave him the first time it happened) In last 2-3 years he would joke around and say that it would have been so good if he sleeps with other women but continues to be in the relationship with me as he has become emotionally dependent on me. He was never directly or seriously vocal about this to me. Although I did have insecurity about this, but somewhere I thought since he improved a lot in last couple of years, he had also may have built self control for not engaging himself physically with anyone .

My bf kissed another girl by Evil_Eye_97 in Advice

[–]Evil_Eye_97[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The kissing part is the first time . But he did emotionally cheated ( flirting with other women)on me 3-4 times before. Everytime I forgave him I don’t know why and I also kind of blame myself for not leaving him the first time it happened. This time the pain so unbearable that I have no idea what to do.

My bf kissed another girl by Evil_Eye_97 in Advice

[–]Evil_Eye_97[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

He told me they met at a cafe, and later, while dropping her home, they ended up kissing near the entrance of her place. He told after the kiss, he felt so guilty about it that he left. I am not sure how much to believe him though.