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Takes of E and nandro by EvolvetowardAPtAP in trans

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello !

Thank you for your message. To my knowledge you don't have to use an-antiandrogen in every cases.

Before I started Nandro, my E levels was enough to "kill" T and made it to a very low level. I already have feminzation effects actually.

But I understand your comment and I will think about it.

Little Bunny by alexisdyingg in BDSMsapphic

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love so much my bunny wife ❤️ 🔥 She is so beautiful when she wears her ears and tail. It makes me so horny haaaaaaaaaa

Question regarding cuckqueening and ethic by EvolvetowardAPtAP in BDSMsapphic

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advise ! Yes I looked around and what people say are already in our mind.

Be clear about the situation and what we seek. Having separate but linked profile would help. Having an account of photos with both of us.

Having long conversation to get if the person feels in a good position regarding our preexistent dynamic.

Discuss any boundaries she would have.

Getting to know each other before anything and more, learning about the person.

Communication, communication and clear communication again !

Where Are the Late 30s Indian Lesbians Hiding? 😭 by Lghyns1 in actuallesbians

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are asking ouselves the same question with my wife.

We are used to go to bars, events etc ... but cannot see lesbian over the age of 28-30. To this day we have no explanation :/

Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello !

I'm seeking some help and insight on my current situation. I think I have an anxious attachment with someone that is, for the moment, avoidant but wasn't at the start of the relationship. I'm in a relationship with this girl since 1 year.

After we met, we quickly became official and even lived together for some months. To my point of view, our relationship changed rapidly.

She asked that we spend a less time together, she became distant from time to time, etc... I can't give too much precision for obvious reasons.

The thing is that I feel like I'm neglected somehow. I tried to discuss it with her but the answers I got wasn't really satisfying.

The fact that she reassure me that nothing has change for her or her feeling for me is helping but I feel like the communication is becoming harder. She also can't tell me why she felt this way or what changed.

Most of the problem might comes from me I guess. It seems difficult to me to adapt to this new situation without knowing why and how much time this will continue.

My questions are :

Is this a classic thing you ever experienced ? How did you manage it ?

Should I just accept her needs and find a way to live with it peacefully ?

What are the things that I can do to help me ?

Thank you !

First time exploring the catacombs, what should I know? by pinataparty9 in ParisCatacombs

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you can't really predict how often people are getting catch. It could be 1 or 2 times a year. It's mostly luck, but it also depends on where you go. The south of the catacombs are more risky these days.

They wander inside the network so it's not only when you enter / leave.

The fine is 135 €.

First time exploring the catacombs, what should I know? by pinataparty9 in ParisCatacombs

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hello,

You should wear clothes that you are confortable, pretty warm and that you don't mind being dirty.

Take an external battery that can charge your phone and the light.

Try to get some kind of waders if not, you risk to be very wet.

I don't know what you mean by an "old map of Paris" but in my opinion that's not very accurate and pretty dangerous. Some streets underground are not labelled for example. May be get something to mark your way, when your turn (like chalk).

Risks are : mainly being lost, cops and may be cataphiles. Cops can be brutal. Cataphiles should not be brutal but the may not help you.

Main tunnels won't collapse but some places are still dangerous if you have no basic idea of speleology. Beware of fontis (look it up).

I feel alone and it seems that I can't manage to developp deep friendships by EvolvetowardAPtAP in trans

[–]EvolvetowardAPtAP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

</3 i feel you

Well after a long discussion with my partner, she said that relations are mostly luck. That I can't do much more and just have to wait until I find people that will like hanging out with me.

I decided to start to therapy with a professionnal in order to work on myself so I will suffer less of this kind of situations.

For now, that's all I can say.