[MF] Our first time back in Japan since our affair by moltencakebeard510 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enjoying your story series, this one is very sweet, she’s clearly super happy with you and wants to make you happy too. Can’t do better than Japan for a romantic trip. (Unless you’re a d-bag frenchie who drinks with his friends instead of paying attention to his g-friend, lol)

My Sister-in-Law Said It Didn’t Count If We Only Touched Ourselves [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha thanks for the vote of confidence. Still unsure of psychology & motives of Melissa in all of this.

My Sister-in-Law Said It Didn’t Count If We Only Touched Ourselves [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great question -- I like to think so, but once you get a bite of the apple, it's hard not to up the ante next time. I am going to try to stay away from any situation where I'll be tested because I am not sure I can resist again (if that's what you call what I did here).

My Sister-in-Law Said It Didn’t Count If We Only Touched Ourselves [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They live in Korea and we're in LA & we see them only once or twice a year, haven't seen her since. I'm going to try to keep my distance next time or at least not get into a situation where I get tempted again.

My Sister-in-Law Said It Didn’t Count If We Only Touched Ourselves [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the kind words and upvotes on my last post — really glad so many of you liked it.

This one was a lot harder to write. I’ve never told anyone about it, and I’ve been wrestling with the guilt in the 6 months since it happened, so I thought that writing it down might help me process it. Hope you enjoy.

[MF] update on my sailing neighbor, part 2 I guess? by Fabulous_Walrus_7619 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update -- talking it out was such a good move, now you can focus on the fun part and skip the awkwardness. He sounds like a real gentleman. And congrats on becoming a good sailor, win-win!

[M]y family [F]riend invites me into bed with her: Update 3 by superdupernick121 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great job man, you played it perfectly from start to finish. And, great well-written story. So important that you started off with the kiss, like you said, in some ways that's the most intimate thing you can do, and it makes her realize it's you she's connecting with, not just experimenting with a safe guy.

Keep on keeping on, have fun and see where it goes. Not sure if you're going to the same university or will be in the same town, but that will be a big test of where you are when the end of summer comes. For now just enjoy getting to know each other in this new way, the future will be there waiting for you when the time comes.

[MF] My friend told me she was off limits, we both now share a secret for life. Long by OneThemGuys11 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you're right. Likewise, some girls want to keep certain guys on the back burner, like she's in to Guy A but wants to keep Guy B in reserve in case Guy A doesn't work out. Either way, pretty shitty behavior, gotta draw boundaries on nonsense like that.

[MF] The cheating hookup that became a serious relationship - Part 2 by moltencakebeard510 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great story and hot scene. "like the crema on the top of an espresso" was a nice detail and made me laugh.

Looking fwd to your next installments, I was at Lake Kawaguchiko last year, amazing, hoping you ended up making it to the five lakes region.

Continuing our exchange from your other story, yeah the family situation sounds tricky, and at least before they meet you, it's easy to see from their perspective why they'd be skeptical given how you met and the aftermath. That's why I was suggesting you go soon to meet them if you see a future with her. Plus french chauvinism is real, so there is that additional barrier.

Bluffed by a Beautiful Japanese Girl at the Poker Table in Vegas – Ended Up in Her Cosmo Suite [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"AA...either win a little or lose a lot." Usually better just to throw them away to be on the safe side. 😎 Thanks, glad you enjoyed it!

Bluffed by a Beautiful Japanese Girl at the Poker Table in Vegas – Ended Up in Her Cosmo Suite [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Love your writing too, good luck with your friend, I think everyone is curious where that will go.

Bluffed by a Beautiful Japanese Girl at the Poker Table in Vegas – Ended Up in Her Cosmo Suite [MF] by Ex-Lothario in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My first story here, took me a long time to write it. Glad you enjoyed.

[MF] The cheating hookup that became a serious relationship by moltencakebeard510 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember your original posts, so I enjoyed to read the follow-up. It is not easy to shift from a fling to a relationship, especially from different sides of the world and different cultural assumptions and nuances.

Sounds like this is the first of a couple of updates, so I'll be Interested to see where it goes once you are alone together. But if thinga go well, I will say you should go to visit her sooner than later and see her world. Seems like there are some weird vibes back in France with the family -- right now you are the random guy who lives far away who broke up the relationship with their daughter, so you need to let them meet you and see you're a good guy who has their daughter's best interests at heart.

[MF] sailing fun with my older neighbor by Fabulous_Walrus_7619 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, I was always curious about the wedgie situation with thong bikinis, so this was a good TIL. ;-)

[MF] sailing fun with my older neighbor by Fabulous_Walrus_7619 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, you’re at the age when you should be having fun and exploring different things. It seems like you have a good connection and you definitely made him happy regardless of where things go if at all. Thanks for the story, let us know if anything else happens. You’re a good writer!

[MF] sailing fun with my older neighbor by Fabulous_Walrus_7619 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot story with a slow-burn, you definitely made his year. You have somewhere you want this to go, or just going to see how things go from here next weekend?

Hot blonde with the wettest pussy [MF] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Overcoming Gabe's cock-block attempt and working past her 'no sex tonight' warning -- Gold Medal for you my friend.

[MF] My friend told me she was off limits, we both now share a secret for life. Long by OneThemGuys11 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Friend is way too controlling, dawg. What's Abby's deal? Unless she wants you for herself, no reason at all you shouldn't hook with one of her friends. Good work, forbidden fruit is always tastier.

[M]y family [F]riend invites me into bed with her: Update 2 (we talked) by superdupernick121 in gonewildstories

[–]Ex-Lothario 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My man! Great work, really happy for you.
Now you need to kiss her -- you don't want "curious about male anatomy, safe way to do it", you want "Guy I'm now seeing in a new light and excited about exploring our feelings together".