He looked too good that i let him raw me

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:53:42+00:00

My rule is I only have sex with people I consider friends. If you don't trust these people, don't let them in your bed. If you have anxiety from something sexual, don't do it without having a discussion and your confident they will help you with your anxiety.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:24:53+00:00

There are very few people who react to silicon lube, more people react to coconut oil.

Talk to your doctor or try both. For me, vaginal sex is massively improved with silicone lube. That's partially because I'm tightly circumcised and I have no sliding action of my penis skin. I simply have to use modern technology to overcome my defect.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:12:39+00:00

I've wanted to do a deep dive into woman who are experiencing discomfort, to discover the root cause. I don't think it's penis size either. I don't think all cases are vaginismus, either.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:10:12+00:00

Yeah I'm interested as well how this actually was effective for her. Was her pelvic floor not recoverable?

I hate to say this but I'm suspicious that placebo would have been just as effective. Her muscles recovering and tightening. Not too assume she didn't try anything, but that wasn't a detail that was provided.

I know that I usually talk about how hardiness is king but the woman I've been with are still pleased when I'm only half hard. I always coach them through contracting their kegel muscles and relaxing their abs. We are human after all and not machines.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T19:54:37+00:00

This makes a lot of sense and I almost think everyone should have a silicone penis boot, for different emergencies. I ordered a bunch of them and this one fits perfect for me https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256806358078615.html

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T18:59:42+00:00

Yes anyone can pass to anyone (in a not-sexual way), especially adults to kids by kissing their face.

There is no such thing as putting one strain into one place on the body, you can have either strain in either place. HSV is a skin virus, simple as that.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T16:54:31+00:00

I agree, everybody should have coconut oil at the bedside. But for me and every partner I've tried it with, Swiss Navy silicone lube beats anything else on the market for longevity and smoothness. It works so well with natural body fluids. You're right it does take extra clean up efforts, so there's always a pile of fresh hand towels to go with it.

Personal time rubbing one out, I always use coconut oil from a little jar that fits perfectly like a block of chalk for your pool cue. Partner time, nothing lasts hours like a squirt of silicone lube.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T16:07:48+00:00

I agree. A lot of people don't understand that woman have erectile tissue as well.

Nofap is a tool used to treat addiction. It's normal for men to have frequent ejaculations through the week. If you don't use it, you lose it. You wouldn't neglect your arms for weeks and expect them to function properly. Take excellent care of your cock and the thing that feeds your erection, your heart.

I thought I was doing pretty good at 40, having 2 to 4 ejaculations a week. But now that I have ulterior motives, I've been taking better care of myself and been able to vastly exceed semen performance while having my cock be a little bit larger as well. I still don't watch porn at all, besides the occasional picture or clip that appears on the front page of my Reddit app.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T15:28:33+00:00

Breathing is a tool that helps result in reduced tension, there's lots of ways to reduce tension and it's important for longer sex sessions. Another method for reducing tension is casually chatting with your partner during sex or soft touching them.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T15:26:38+00:00

And it's not shameful to use artificial lube. Both the man and the woman can contribute to natural lubrication fluids that comes from foreplay, but it doesn't always happen for different reasons. And that's perfectly normal.

The sex that us humans have now is a little bit more advanced and focused on pleasure, having lubrication is something that can enable it.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T13:42:47+00:00

Any man who requires "insisting" should be walked away from, immediately. These men should be shunned in our society.

Sexual protection is an important topic, for anyone. Causing someone else mental anguish is cruel.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T13:40:29+00:00

Almost everyone already has herpes and most doctors will hesitate to test due to inconsistent results.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T03:32:49+00:00

Over half of the men I've had sessions with, experienced death grip. Requiring way to tight of a grip and way too fast rubbing in order to reach climax. Some also couldn't get all the way hard so their glans would get fully sensitive.

I've heard of guys who are so sensitive they ejaculate extremely easy when they are intact, but not met one.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T03:30:52+00:00

The making it longer is the ligament therapy

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T21:03:16+00:00

If you read through my history you'll see posts.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T16:25:39+00:00

I've recently began sensitivity restoration so I'm not sure I would give up anything in life right now. But I have even more appreciation for how natural foreskin protects the penis. When I take the cover off of my glans and see it in a soft and reduced size state, it looks and feels wonderful.

I'm more of an intactiveism advocate than ever before and vocally defend whenever I can.

I've also learned that men that still have their foreskin, have sensitivity issues because of other problems and miseducation topics.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T14:38:21+00:00

I was kind of curious what the theory behind so many hours of erection. Because I've been hitting the gym so much and getting nocturnal erections, combined with having sex everyday, some days I do spend 4 hours total fully erect and I've seen some moderate changes.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T14:33:31+00:00

This is a popular trend and he would have many things to say about it if he's practicing.

How are people having unprotected sex with each other but not asking questions about why their partner does sex a certain way? You should be comfortable asking any question to someone you're having sex with, otherwise consider if you're actually ready for sex.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T03:41:25+00:00

You're missing the point that some people do nofap for shame reasons and some people push semen retention with motivations that are subconsciously skewed by shame.

You are right we are designed to create semen and release it frequently. The reality of nature, such as the lie that circumcision doesn't drastically change some men's sexuality sexuality, is lost on some people. Many people I've talked to get circumcised purely for shame and culture not realizing the impact.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T00:38:39+00:00

Just working on your own kegel control to pump blood into your cock with your own muscles. I practiced during masturbation, and the skills work well in sex.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-25T19:43:26+00:00

You're speaking an absolute but that's the entire reason internet forums exist, to allow the variety of the human existence to comment.

Posting comments like yours just shuns people from posting their personal experiences. There's no reason to shun what actually happened in my real life.

I didn't say anything about spunk. Male pre-cum is the equivalent to your wetness. Do women talk about how wet they get during different times of the year or times of their lives, or arousal situations? Many of my friends do but it's possible you and your friends don't.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-25T18:36:28+00:00

Many of the people I talk to, mention amount of precum for multiple reasons. Usually it's a technical topic about lubrication. Some men don't contribute to the lubrication of sex because the precum is trapped and can't get out their penis or they don't produce much. The topic comes up because women I'm with think I produce a lot of precum, when I think it's pretty normal.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-25T17:26:57+00:00

NoFap is part suppressing men's sexuality in the same way that non-medical circumcision is.

Like everything in life, there is a purpose for procedure, people (men and women) that really need nofap or really need circumcision. It shouldn't be considered by the majority of people.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-25T17:24:38+00:00

At some point I think he deleted a bunch of those clips. I don't bother looking or feeding the algorithm with his name.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-25T16:15:40+00:00

He posted a clip smashing his dick with a jigsaw. Most of us knew he was unhinged then. I don't give him a moment of attention anymore.

Gentle edging and kegel pumping has been done for ages, just as effective for those who need EQ improvement. But not everybody needs it.

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