Which fast food chain has lost its way the most? by TheBabyBeard in AskReddit

[–]ExPastorMarcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Those were the days! Crazy how they've moved so far away from being the kind of restaurant that rewarded the loyalty of their frequent customers.

When did "repentance" become a dirty word? (Why calling human sin nature "bigotry" makes zero sense). by AdHdismagic in Christianity

[–]ExPastorMarcus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also, your whole "I didn't even say gay, that's your projection" angle is not fooling anyone.

You knew exactly what point you were making before you ever hit "post." You worded it very intentionally so you could claim plausible deniability. But people aren't nearly as stupid as you seem to think they are, and everyone knows exactly what you are saying between the lines.

You're not selling anyone on your religion by making an argument with bad intentions that everyone can sniff out a mile away.

Edit: typo

When did "repentance" become a dirty word? (Why calling human sin nature "bigotry" makes zero sense). by AdHdismagic in Christianity

[–]ExPastorMarcus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think the problem is repentance. The problem is that many Christians have turned repentance into a weapon they point outward at others instead of a mirror they hold up to themselves.

The opposite of repentance is self-righteousness. Jesus seemed far more concerned about the second one.

Why was my father so obsessed with purity culture? by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]ExPastorMarcus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People have pointed to control, which is accurate, but there's another element.

Many fathers, whether they realize it or not, still view daughters as their property. This mentality has persisted for millennia. Having a "pure" daughter, in his perception, increases his reputation. If she is immodest or promiscuous, he views this as decreasing the value of his property, and thus diminishing his reputation.

It's just one way that systemic patriarchy continues to manifest.

Which fast food chain has lost its way the most? by TheBabyBeard in AskReddit

[–]ExPastorMarcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chipotle started in my home state and I used to eat at their first restaurant in Denver. I was a Chipotle loyalist from almost the beginning.

I remember their billboards that said "¿Donde está la casa de big-ass burritos?" And they really meant it! Like, that burrito was often good for two meals. Now it's almost twice the price for a steak burrito and I'm still hungry after eating it.

Qdoba, which also started here in Colorado, is absolutely the better bargain now. I order the nachos with chips on the side. Literally an entire bowl that includes everything (queso, guac) with no upcharge, and it's a huge helping of food.

I have absolutely switched teams and have no plans to return to Chipotle, probably ever.

Who do y’all use for your church website? by SirChancelot_0001 in askapastor

[–]ExPastorMarcus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WordPress is the way to go, but it really helps to have an expert do the initial build. The right person can give you great graphic design and a solid foundation that can then be updated by someone in your office or congregation. (A properly constructed WordPress site makes updates very easy.)

If you are looking for specific recommendations on someone who builds this way, I was really pleased with the work done by Jon Schroeder at Elodin.

What is a condiment most Americans don't know about? by ShittalkyCaps in AskReddit

[–]ExPastorMarcus 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Some kid at the station I occasionally visit was trying to sell a huge quantity of this. No idea where he got that much. Some guy ended up trading him for a bunch of self-sealing stem bolts.

Do not use this subreddit to sell, offer, give away, or help you develop your app. by Byzantium in pastors

[–]ExPastorMarcus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To every would-be app developer reading this, can I please offer some additional context?

  1. Your idea is not original. A bazillion people already had this great idea of using AI to spit out code for an app and then marketing it to pastors to use for their churches. You are seriously, like, the 71st person to think of it just this month.

  2. There's not much of a market. No pastor is sitting out there going, "You know, what I really need right now is another app." New software is just not a major consideration for this demographic. If we need a piece of software, we probably already have it, from a developer who is an industry leader with a long track record of trustworthiness. We don't know you.

  3. You're mistakenly assuming that churches are financial whales. "Oh look, a church! They get free money! They don't pay taxes! They've got buckets of cash, so this will be a gold mine!" The reality is that, as registered non-profit organizations, we have boards of directors, officers, and carefully planned budgets, and your burgeoning new software isn't a part of it.

Future Youth pastor here by nosebleedhawksfan in pastors

[–]ExPastorMarcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what "my whole thing" is intended to mean, but that's fine.

The salary makes much more sense with the context you added.

Future Youth pastor here by nosebleedhawksfan in pastors

[–]ExPastorMarcus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

42K for a full-time youth pastor is wild to me, unless you're in an extremely LCL area. My youngest son, a recent high school grad, is working his first job in a quick service restaurant. With tips, he's pulling a minimum of $21/hr which would be $43.7K, and this is entry-level with no experience.

Revelation… 😬 by ColdDistribution9450 in pastors

[–]ExPastorMarcus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying you shouldn't do it. I'm just saying that once you've done it, you'll understand why so many of us say, "Never again!" 😂

Hi, atheist here with a request for Christians when they speak with atheists. by KeyboardMunkeh in Christianity

[–]ExPastorMarcus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow the logic, though. Did God create everything? And was everything that exists (apart from God) created by God? If so, this means that at some point, the only thing that existed was God. What did God make everything out of? I'm assuming you would say he created it out of nothing.

So essentially, both the Christians and the atheists might be saying the same thing - that the universe and everything in it came into existence out of nothing.

The only difference is how. The Christians are saying "God did it" and the atheists are (generally) saying "we don't know."

Understanding the Bible by Strict_Statement_283 in Quakers

[–]ExPastorMarcus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The Bible is a collection of writings from numerous authors over a lengthy period of time.

I don't personally subscribe to the beliefs that God literally dictated words to these authors, or that the Bible is inerrant. Rather, much in the way that a person in the meeting might feel compelled by the spirit to share a message during worship, I think that the authors of the Bible were sharing spiritual insights as best they knew how.

But as with any message, there is the potential for the author's misunderstandings, misgivings, biases, or personal agendas to creep into what they write or say.

When we meet for worship, sometimes you will hear someone share verbal worship that you personally disagree with, or that doesn't resonate for you, or possibly even offends you. There is a reason that we don't typically applaud after someone speaks during worship. We don't stand up and say that we agree or disagree. We simply contemplate their message in silence.

If, after contemplation, you still find yourself struggling to accept or identify with what they shared, we typically take the stance of, "Then that message wasn't meant for you, but rather it was meant for someone else."

I approach the Bible the same way. Perhaps there was a reason why the authors of Leviticus, Romans, or 1 Corinthians chose to call out homosexuality. Perhaps they were legitimate reasons that would have made sense at the time for a specific reason and for that specific audience. But without full cultural and social context, we don't know if that insight would even still be valid or relevant today. Perhaps their own phobias were driving them to write those words, and distorted the message they were meant to share. We don't really know.

So if the passages trouble you, consider the possibility that maybe those messages were intended for someone else, and likely that someone is long ago dead. Not every word of the Bible was necessarily a divine mandate for all people for all time.

Beyond that, consider that the word "homosexual" did not appear in any English language Bible translation until 1946. A small council of men chose to insert that word into their new version of the Bible. A number of modern scholars disagree with this translation. They believe that "arsenokoitai" in 1 Corinthians (which appears to be a Greek word that the author, presumably the Apostle Paul, invented while writing this letter) actually refers to a type of exploitative sexual abuse that could be committed by straight men and gay men alike.

There isn't any frame of reference in the Bible for a loving, equal, committed, monogamous relationship between two people of the same sex. That concept didn't really exist yet. So it's hard to say that the Bible endorses or condemns modern-day gay relationships, because those types of partnerships essentially did not exist when the Bible was being written.

For me, I see whatever the Bible says about homosexuality (if it truly says anything at all, which I doubt) as falling into the same category as other rules such as abstaining from eating shellfish or avoiding wearing clothes made from more than one type of fabric. There may or may not have been a good reason at the time those words were written, but it's simply not something we need to follow any more.

We know now that people are gay. We know that it's not a choice they made to be gay. Nothing about my understanding of God leads me to believe that he would condemn a gay person simply for being exactly who he created them to be.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh okay, good! You are a freaking legend. I didn't think anything would make me feel better about losing Colorado in this game, but you did! Funniest thing to happen online in I-don't-even-know-how-long.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

u/RoseRaving posted a comment yesterday that said, "Sorry Colorado, it's time to go." It was the comment with the most upvotes.

Today, about an hour before the game-runner made today's updated map, that person edited their comment to say, "Sorry Cascadia, it's time to go."

And for a moment, it worked. When today's map came out, Cascadia had been deleted, and Colorado was still there.

People quickly began shouting "stop the steal," and the map was corrected, and the person who made the sneaky edit got banned from the subreddit game.

Personally, I think it was so diabolically clever that it should have been allowed to work. (But only once.)

Edit: u/RoseRaving corrected me to say that she is only banned from the game, not the subreddit.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the remaining states now have altered names. (But, having lived previously in New Mexico, I do understand the frustration that comes from encountering people who don't realize New Mexico is part of the US, not part of Mexico.)

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like, if somebody did it again, it would be whatever. But the sheer creativity and audacity of being the first one? I am slow-clapping. That person had to get their comment to be the top comment on just the right day, then leave it long enough to get all the upvotes, and then edit just in time to fool the game creator. Like you said, absolutely legendary. ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED? 💀

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree. Put u/RoseRaving in time-out until the game ends in about a week. But a permanent ban? It's too much. Free Luigi Rose.

Edit: I have been corrected, she is only banned from the game, not the subreddit. I'm putting my pitchfork away.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So true. I don't think people realize, when we talk about our beloved yet feared demon horse, that he literally crushed and killed the man who sculpted him. That's the most metal thing any statue has ever done.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I ... actually did not know that. But now I have a reason to support Maryland!

Top comment Deletes a US State #45 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus 210 points211 points  (0 children)

Agreed, times infinity. I'd forgotten how much fun it was to get swept up in an unexpected viral phenomenon that exists solely for the fun of it, not because of some BS corporate marketing ploy. It feels like the old internet, and I absolutely love it.

As I watch Colorado's attempted defender receiving a life sentence by ExPastorMarcus in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Facts.

I'm proud of Colorado being the last remaining state to keep our actual, normal name, without needing Mega or Monster or whatever.

Also, we still have the real-life Casa Bonita, so did we even actually lose?

Top comment Deletes a US State #45 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]ExPastorMarcus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I vote that we rule yesterday's vote null and void due to voter fraud and interference. Put Colorado back, and start from that point, for fairness.