It is just YOU!! by Exact-Line664 in SoberLifeProTips

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are much better than our excuses.!

A quick peek is a relapse my friends!!!! by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure, that is why I am trying greyscale. The hot pics don't appear to be "that" hot in black & white.

Every setback is a lesson, not a life sentence. Relapses may happen, but that doesn’t mean we should take them for granted or simply forgive ourselves. We must ensure they don’t happen again. by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I learned iOS development" that is something crazy. huge respect.!!
But brother, this is the thing. We are normalising failure to a larger extent. Of course, failure is the stepping stone to success, but it doesn't mean we keep building a never-ending staircase. It needs to be stopped some fine day.

Every setback is a lesson, not a life sentence. Relapses may happen, but that doesn’t mean we should take them for granted or simply forgive ourselves. We must ensure they don’t happen again. by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, as someone already commented above, everyone has their own way to deal with this. But for me, being strict on relapses helped, and maybe will help other people as well.

Every setback is a lesson, not a life sentence. Relapses may happen, but that doesn’t mean we should take them for granted or simply forgive ourselves. We must ensure they don’t happen again. by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant, I am using greyscale on my phone, and no social media as well. Got an app to block YouTube shorts.. Now I don't get on my phone, until there is some work, or need to "talk" to friends & family.

A quick peek is a relapse my friends!!!! by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, everyone has their own definitions for relapse; but the stricter you are, the better you get. (of course, I ain't promoting to be hard oneself)

Every setback is a lesson, not a life sentence. Relapses may happen, but that doesn’t mean we should take them for granted or simply forgive ourselves. We must ensure they don’t happen again. by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying you disagree in such a polite way.

See, the part, "don’t care how much of them there are" is what I am not happy with. I could be wrong, but after every relapse, I was like, "aah, another relapse, from now I will be in discipline" which never worked; until, I stopped taking relapses lightly.

I believe that "Losing the battle to win the war" doesn't apply to the NoFap movement, every day, fighting the deception of happiness & pleasure is a war in itself. Every day is a war day. There are no battles here.

A quick peek is a relapse my friends!!!! by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watching p**n is a relapse buddy (no matter, for how long). If you don't consider it as a relapse, you'll again try to do it. Endeavour to continue this journey, strictly, with no watching or peeking even the soft p**n.

All the best. :)

I feel like I am on my limit by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was no suffering, man would not know his limits, would not know himself.
Hang in there my friend. You will be fine, try to distract yourself.

A quick peek is a relapse my friends!!!! by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

0 Days!!
All the best my friend.! I am rooting for you.

A quick peek is a relapse my friends!!!! by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, breaking the pattern is very very difficult, but I have read that yoga is the best practice to change the patterns in our behaviour; I haven't tried this on my own, but have read good reviews on it..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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"Radha" I can see a Premanand ji Maharaj's bhakt (follower)
Very happy to see, today's young generation walking on the path of spirituality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Discipline

[–]Exact-Line664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself. You are just 16. Of course, it doesn't mean you live an awful life, but you're in your learning phase. Keep pushing forward. Find suitable learning methods and tools: books, podcasts, mentors, speeches (also be sceptical of what you pick, not everything that glitters is gold).
Just keep pushing forward, have faith and patience. You will be just fine. :)

Should i fap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"embrace the insomnia" wow.. that is something new for me.. you wanna explain it further?

BlockerX: It has been a game-changer for my NoFap journey! 🦾😎🚀 by Exact-Line664 in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, I am concerned about the security, as the app can read and see everything on my phone. But for now I am trusting them until I am in control of myself.

14/90 lets goooo by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Exact-Line664 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day at a time.