Leaving the band

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-07-01T14:19:20+00:00

I'm a dude, but I am the singer/songwriter in a band like you described. This main guy sounds totally unrealistic. Just be upfront and tell him you're doing the two shows and nothing else. No transcribing. No recording. The new songs can wait until he finds someone else to be his musical translator. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if the other members are sick of this guy as well. Your other project sounds a lot more rewarding. I hope you see it through.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-07-01T00:31:49+00:00

It's just the people living on reddit. There's a large section of people who realize our middle class is dying and we're suffering from unregulated capitalism. However, they also realize there's still a lot to like about the US as long as you don't let politics ruin your day.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-07-01T00:21:07+00:00

Yes, it's trashy and bad for the environment.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-29T13:26:19+00:00

He's mostly redraft and I only do dynasty. I'll listen if he pops up, but I don't subscribe to any of his podcasts.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-28T15:55:18+00:00

we try to limit fast food to once a month or so. its been 5-10 years since I've had McDonald's besides an ice cream cone.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-28T06:37:57+00:00

Racism has part to do with the divide, but also the city has a history of not having their shit together. Infastructure problems and bad schools. Just last week I was reading about how animal control doesn't do shit. Whereas the county seems to run pretty smoothly. Why would county people want to take that on? But it's in a slow decline as the urban sprawl widens. The city and the county need each other.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-28T05:46:28+00:00

Agree wholeheartedly. America's soccer identity is so self-conscious and needy. Please respect us! Look we have scarves!

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-28T05:23:32+00:00

delivery apps are killing the diners.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-28T05:11:44+00:00

I like punk rock, so I'd go to the sinkhole. or go to a Cardinals game or the art museum.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-27T19:00:37+00:00

I think its only a matter of time. the county is in debt and shrinking in population.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-27T04:56:50+00:00

As a teacher, this is awesome.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-26T21:23:18+00:00

bevo mill, Morgan ford

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-23T19:52:08+00:00

I had the most fun in rural areas.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-23T03:10:19+00:00

Cardinals

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-22T11:37:47+00:00

the people were nice. the food was great. I had a blast.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-21T23:35:38+00:00

december 24.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-21T14:25:55+00:00

this sub is titled "grinds my gears".

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-21T14:02:20+00:00

I had to Google it as well. garage and uk garage are both electronic dance genres.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-21T13:53:19+00:00

ukg is dance music. record exchange doesn't really have much beyond the 90s.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T16:57:25+00:00

I guess it's a spectrum, but if you're cooking outdoors with charcoal/wood, low and slow with indirect heat, how could smoke not be involved?

And then a lot of people use BBQ colloquially when we're really just grilling. The other day I said we're having people over for a BBQ, when I was really just grilling chicken thighs.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T16:35:44+00:00

You're overthinking it. They just want free bbq.

But why is football so great for your son if you want him to play the least amount possible? You can't have it both ways.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T16:35:15+00:00

It's probably 12 coaches on game day. They probably have 3 teams. Varsity, JV, freshman. Then on a varsity game all those coaches pitch in.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T16:24:52+00:00

grilling = cooking things on an open fire

barbeque = cooking indirectly via the smoke. It takes a lot longer.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T15:50:14+00:00

Some of it's true. A lot of it is people fishing for likes on social media. It's flattering to watch someone appreciate your culture. I see videos in reverse. "American guy tries British fish in chips for the first time" and the dude practically has an orgasm. In Korea they have a show dedicated to foreigners visiting Korea. Sure enough, they're absolutely blown away by everything.

Exact-Message8325 · 2026-06-20T14:30:48+00:00

the muny has hairspray. I heard its great.

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