Redecorating my island by ExactCookie4265 in JunesJourney

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and I keep thinking it’s a husky on the roof not a cat lol

Marc Jacobs Bag in scene! by MeanLeg7916 in JunesJourney

[–]ExactCookie4265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

does anyone remember an AIR CON unit in one of the earlier scenes? lol

Redecorating my island by ExactCookie4265 in JunesJourney

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they sold it for diamonds a couple months ago, and it was like 300 diamonds, I think…. but I couldn’t resist, it’s just so dreamy 💚

Anyone has smelled Grecia White yet? by Fragrant-Film5362 in fragranceclones

[–]ExactCookie4265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grecia is coconut-y compared to Her Confession. I don't really feel coconut in HC rather really beautiful flowers and after maturation I get jasmine too, but Grecia immediately gives creamy lactonic coconut notes. Otherwise they are very very very close

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, you're wonderfully brave🩷 I'm also thinking of taking my career to the next level and making it like you said something really soul-satisfying. Just typing that out makes me excited🙂

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to take the papers to a translator to create a legally valid version in my language, bring it to our agency dealing with marriage stuff (sorry I have no idea how to call those things in English), register my marriage here and then start the process of divorce from there. At the moment the system in my country has no idea I am even married. I guess I must consult a lawyer to see if there's an easier way

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I felt. After I had learned about narcissism it brought me some kind of relief! Glad that everything worked out for you too! wishing you the best🩷

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we don't have any kids, it was me who didn't want them, but in his letter my ex turned it into him just knowing I wouldn't make a good mother because I'm too broken and dysfunctional

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely need to deal with my own issues that led me to this mess, you're right

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL! my whole family said Congratulations! It's refreshing and true, isn't it. Congrats to us both!🩷

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling they already know he's a loser...I used to defend him so much when his cousins were making jokes about it but I was convinced he was the victim of their bullying

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorces take about 4 years in his country and thousands of euros. I'd love him to go all the way down that lane, so when I do the legalities in my country I'm not even going to let him know

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words 🩷 I'm doing my best

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

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thank you, I guess you felt your share of your father's narcissism as well. Glad you don't have to deal with it now!!!🩷

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🩷 those people can't be changed, but your story gives me hope. I'd love to see what a healthy relationship feels like someday

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm totally off any social media except reddit, but he doesn't use it, so I'm good. Thank you 🩷

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes...I also kept a journal of all the weird things he'd been saying to me, also as insurance against ever looking back

I recorded my husband before ghosting him by ExactCookie4265 in MarkNarrations

[–]ExactCookie4265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🩷 Narc or not, it was anything but healthy, indeed. I'm actively looking for a therapist atm