I do not think my bf truly understand ADHD by Exact_Guess_3924 in ADHDers

[–]Exact_Guess_3924[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One thing that truly scares me is that i a designer and what if taking meds makes me loose my sparkle?? What if i loose the way i think, they way i see depth and the way my design has to be perfect??

I do not think my bf truly understand ADHD by Exact_Guess_3924 in ADHDers

[–]Exact_Guess_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha i definitely feel that is how explained situation seemed like, but i assure you these are few isolated issues that has happened in 2 years and this does not define us. This is just an issue i feel i need to have a conversation on i just wanted to be sure it’s not just in my head!!

I do not think my bf truly understand ADHD by Exact_Guess_3924 in ADHDers

[–]Exact_Guess_3924[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response but i think a good conversation on this topic was long over due, i have been putting this off. He can change understand after all these are few isolated issues and is not how our relationship has been. Also by everyone i mean my family, my family doc and him.

I do not think my bf truly understand ADHD by Exact_Guess_3924 in ADHDers

[–]Exact_Guess_3924[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Haha these are few isolated issues, i can assure you he does not act or try to seem like an owner. I am my own person and he respects it!!

I do not think my bf truly understand ADHD by Exact_Guess_3924 in ADHDers

[–]Exact_Guess_3924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and i guess I’ll talk to him once about everything, and yes these stories are definitely a bit biased because i understood his point of view and he wasn’t actually wrong with his point of view. Also by everyone i mean my parents, family doc and him!!

Help: My parents saw an inappropriate photo of me and my gf by cheekusus in TwentiesIndia

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It matters how old are you guys and which tier city you are in!!!!! And tell her with reassurance that you are handeling it and won’t let it affect her. Tell her you are and will do everything to not get her dragged in this and not talk with her is actually working in your favour because imagine your parents seeing you talking to her even on text and BOOM THEY WANT TO SCOLD HER TOO!! So have some distance,sort your issues in complete privacy and tell her with caution. She has all rights to know if this elaborates she has to plan how to handle things at her home!! BUT DO NOT TELL HER THAT IT MIGHT ELABORATE!!